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Well said, Dee. As far as I know I'm initially gendered female but when more closely examined I'm seen for what I am, a trans woman. Obviously, like all of us, I'd much prefer just having a woman's face and body but that's not going to happen. So yes, dress as you wish, as feminine, appropriate, and nice as you like. And just go out as you, regardless of whatever you think people perceive you as. You know who you are, that's really all that matters.

I LOVE THIS!! Well at least in principal. Also seems like dubious advice. Depending on where you live even deadly. So as much as I would love to say just be you. Also be safe.

Dear Dee, Your goals are always moving . . . that is a sign of growth. Every ten years, every cell in your body is replaced at least once. You literally are not the same person you were ten years ago. Looking back, I find I am very different than I was six months ago, a year ago, two years ago, etc. That explains when I reread an article I wrote six months ago, that I was actually proud of, and I find myself saying, "I can't believe I wrote that!" Am sure if you look back, you will notice you have been making amazing progress! Your friend, Monica