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Ronnie Virga

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  1. Today is St. Distaff's Day. Compitalia, celebrating the household Gods. Today we honor Frigg and her followers, the "Freefolk". "Partly work, and partly play Ye must on Saint Distaff's Dayu" the old adage goes. It is also time for me to "shield in place". I need to take a break from the constant ups and downs regarding "my" dysphoria. My affliction. Tired of facing inward and trying to fix something that in the scope of my life? A lot less of an "issue" than it needs to be, considering. What? Well, let's throw out some things shall we? I have recieved some excellent "counseling" from someone who says my dysphoria is NOT my biggest concern. OK. Good to know. My counselor is a pretty decent person. Specializies in helping people who's professional lives expose them to some very traumatic stuff. I was amazed at how good this person was at getting me to talk. Good to find someone I can be comfortable with. A person that is familiar with the "problems" people who work in compartmented "projects" all they're lives can develop. I thought I was lossing it to Paranoid schizophrenia! The counselor just laughed at me and said "No, that's called self preservation. Johnathan Pollard actually existed. That actually happened. Your pretty much screwed for the rest of your life, just stay frosty and relax". Showed me this picture and said if you can balance these? Your mental health issues will be skosh. When I broached "dysphoria"? Push me over with a feather, the counselor replied "You'd be astounded to know just how many people I deal with could use a little clarity on THAT subject". Love them Doc's that don't beat around the bush! How is your 2017 going to go? I have a good idea of how mine is going to go. Lots and lots of time in medical facilities. Lots of appointments. Lots of testing. I am VERY HAPPY about that. This flurry of medical activity surrounds my Soulmate and not me. She is FINALLY going to get the medical assistance and screening that she deserves. She is. not me. I am working on my "blackouts" and my manic depression issues, but for now, I am good. I have a mea culpa. I have NOT been a good spouse for a while. My prediliction with my tripartite self. I have been selfish. So, there you go. "Ronnie" is a steady state for me. 50/50. MODLOC. I have a lot of "new" things to deal with. I can NEVER drive a car on public roads EVER again, unless it is the most dire of emergencies. I can't get on an airliner. I wouldn't be able to fly a plane. I'm not even supposed to operate power tools without supervision anymore! But that doesn't mean I have to stop living or caring about the awesome folks I've met here. I was going to leave this site and then I thought, why? It can help me. Hopefully, I can be of help to someone else. I have 41 and in a less than a month, 42 Y E A R S invested in the person that I DO love most. Violet pretty much is my Universe and she deserves better from me. Sure, some will say that I may be "disengenious" with regard to the "community". That I am not being "true" to myself. Really? I exist in a different "plane" than most people. The person who is my betrothed is also a Petty Officer in the US NAVY, like I am. She saved my life. That's what she does. She can make a towering Marine break out in a sweat by snapping a rubber band, holding a syringe and saying "Need to draw some labs". The only things that can make the USMC hesitate? Godzilla and Hospital Corpsman. Oops, my bad. Hospital Corpsman THEN Godzilla. Got to preserve the natural order of things as the Creator has made them. Nope, for me? This fight isn't about a community. It's about my sanity and I am the ONLY one that can fight it and that means being in it to win it. I may never be "complete", but I promise, I will try NOT to be boring. But I'm not that salty so having a wingman? PRICELESS. I know she always has my back. BRAVO ZULU Doc! So for this new blog, I chose "Scutum" because I need a shield right now. Something that will insulate me from the Demon I have just gotten to go back to sleep. Scutum is called "Sobieski's Shield" in some places in Europe. Jan III Sobieski was a bad ass. Your writings here and how you look at the World and what you are doing to cope and just the minutiae of our everyday existence can be the exact thing I need to stabilize when I start to get wiggy! 2 anchors are better than one. I have Violet and I have you all. I am blessed. Monsters from the id. They're real.
  2. A new species of Human was recently discovered in a cave. Paleontologists have dub the new discovery "Homophobiananderthal". The species did not survive long. Apparently, even cavemen were smart enough NOT to put up with that crap! ;)

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  3. Happy Mothers Day! Posted pics of what it looks like after the storm. Thanks Mother Earth. We needed the water without a doubt.

  4. Blizzards in May are really no fun!. Power has been very unstable recently.

  5. Watching Mullholand Falls. Aweswome costuming

     

  6. had to delete most of my pics (64) All the descriptive data was corrupted.

  7. had to delete most of my pics (64) All the descriptive data was corrupted.

  8. grooving to Kiesza - Hideaway then I am going Nite-Nite ! Have a great day Webizens ! :)

  9. Grooving to Daft Punk - Get Lucky

  10. I am so tired, need a decent nghts sleep, soon!

  11. H A L L E L U J A H!, one more time then!
  12. Karen, Glad to hear that your healing well! Glad to know that your surgery came out ok. You took a big roll of the dice because nerves are some tricky mojo. Hallelujah? Oh heck yeah! Awesome news for you!
  13. Karen, I could not agree more. I could never do this kind of work. I am too squeamish! Unless it's an emergency, like an accident or something, then I'm fine! I'm going to start looking into it this week. I can get a head start so I'll be ready for my "Upstairs upgrade" Violet and I were looking at suits the other day! She is very stoked about my decision! I am thankful that I have folks that will share this info with me.
  14. TY Karen. #2 on the list? Violet and I discussed that this morning! That's what I call Synchronicity!
  15. Shout out to Kasandra! WoOT! 4 helping me quit cigs! Rock On Kasandra,a nd thanks again! :)

    1. Emma

      Emma

      Hey Veronica, congrats! That's hard to do, I know.

    2. Ronnie Virga

      Ronnie Virga

      Thanks Sweet! I had a little help this time from Violet and Kasandra!

  16. Shout out to Kasandra! WoOT! 4 helping me quit cigs! Rock On Kasandra,a nd thanks again! :)

  17. Just a quick shout out to Kasandra! WoOT! TY for hlping me quit smoking! :)

  18. Just a quick shout out to Kasandra! WoOT! TY for hlping me quit smoking! :)

  19. Karen. You have shared a pretty remarkable evolution with us. I'm a smarter, wait, LESS STUPIDER person than when I first came here on many different levels. I owe part of that to you for your candor and kindness. Can't wait to see that dress. Bet it will be something! Cheers, Veronica.
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    2. MonicaPz

      MonicaPz

      Watched/Listened to it TWICE! Becoming a BIG fan of Daf Punk!!

    3. Ronnie Virga

      Ronnie Virga

      I know right. It just leaves you with a smile on your heart ! :)

  20. Damp & Cold! Oh well, washes the pollen out of the air ! :)

  21. Enjoying a rainy Sunday reading the news and a good book, off and on ! :)

  22. Pollen - The all natural nuclear weapon

  23. Tonight My Fabulous Sig-O gets Spaghetti, Sausage and Marinara dressing. Garlic Toast. Chocolate & Tea for afters ! :) Because she ROCKS ! :)

    1. MonicaPz

      MonicaPz

      Veronica, I am drooling! Interesting, I had a similar meal two days ago! LOL!

    2. Ronnie Virga

      Ronnie Virga

      Sorry Monica! :) Came out pretty good. Now for tea and chocolate.

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