Hawkman BRAVO!!! I think your very brave and wise ...thanks for share'n your story ... and It really does not matter what others think... you are the only one that it does matter to. Keep on thriving my dear .. With the confidence you posses your going to be just fine! Ps the only thing that matters is how we treat others for if we give respect we will get it back somehow.
Dear UNO, I have to differ with this part of your comment .... Quote "males are raised to believe they can do whatever they want to do, and taught to do it with confidence. On the other hand, females are groomed for attracting a male, getting married and having children, and taught that only men do this or that."
I have seen a change in this way of thinking in my life time.
True the it's still not equal for a female as a male but it is a little betta than it was when I was younger....I wish it were though; equal.
Everything else you wrote about in your quote I totally agree with. ;)
You know Ms. Lori this is a sad fact of our community. It hurts me deeply to know even in death we do not get the respest we all so richly deserve.
the article mentioned this "These deaths do not attract enough attention as the transgender community is marginalised, she adds."
why do think that is???
Feelsup your too cool, thanx for being concerned about yours truly LOL sweetie I have no secrets; it's just I feel that it maybe a little inappropriate for our fourm thats why I'd like to ask Ms. Lori, or Michael first thanx ..... Yes! it does hurt, and I wouldnot recommend doing this, but you did ask if anybody knew anything to shrink the size of their ...... and I know first hand, because mine has shrank down to being a inny. :P
feelsup, I don't know how to shrink one's genital, and I have heard of some poeple doing extreme things; which I DONOT recommend at all. I do know that my genital has shrank because, I have a medical condition, in which I have to do a procedure I don't like doing. I'll only say what it is if Ms. Lori say's its' ok to write about it, till then sweetie I guess you'll have to do what you been doing, or you could do the duck, tuck, yuck!! thing Sorry for that ... little joke :lol:
Quote:"The issue of prison rape is often belittled by standup comedians, but it’s really no laughing matter – especially if you’re a transgender woman locked up in an all-male facility."
These kinda stories make feel sick...
Well time for my two cents ..lol for what it is worth Welcome to the guide prlover
I'll try to stay on point, first sound like your the one seeking help not him. Now than you need to have a heart to heart with him, and tell him how you feel (please make sure your timing is right to do this.) Also, if a person is not seeking help theres nothing one says, or does that will get through to that person ie. <they have to want help.>
I want to commend you for heaching out, however I think Michael had a bit of great advice to offer you. Which was to try the LGBTQ Center near you ... they help people on a sliding scale bases. Meaning if you all cannot afford to pay for therapy it's no problem. Maybe you all can join a couples group, and get the help you need in your relationship.
P.S. When I first went to the LGBTQ Center I was apprehensive at first, but how I grown it my transition! I've only been attending the group for about 4 months now. The group I in has help me tremendously!! Peace Out .... I'll pray all goes well for you both ^_^
We live in Los Angeles California, and we have put in many call to Kaiser ... However, if I want this gender change; thats what their going to do list us as two females living together..... I just find it a little funny <as in odd>
Thank you UNO for answering my thought ;)