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Hi all, a couple of quick recent anecdotes... 1. On my way to therapy the other day a random guy on the street (a contractor I believe, waiting outside a building) said "hello gorgeous" to me as I passed I smiled at him, said hello and carried on. The downside is that it put me in a really good mood ... on my way to therapy!!! That doesn't help 2. I may have met someone the other night when I was out ... well, I definitely met someone, but it could be "someone" - I may know more tomorrow, we're getting together - the novelty for me is that the person is a she, so we'll see if I really am lesbian (or bisexual)

What can I say but "I am happy for you"

Hope you have lots and lots of fun Christie, something to look forward to! Eve x

Hi Christie, I'm excited for you! How fun is that? And, I definitely caught your meaning when you said you might know more tomorrow. Indeed, waiting to see if she calls you... I think that's exciting too, whether she does or not. Please let us know how it turns out! Hugs, Emma

Many people need time and space to reconcile with these matters so it's usually in one's best interest to do so. When I made my announcement to most people the phrase "I am still the same person you always known, that has not changed" was spoken and believe it carried much weight. Continued best wishes in your journey.

While performing some research I came across a memorializing for 2015 for trans-people who were murdered because they were different and society perpetuates the core problem which truly needs to change in the home before we see a drop in murders. Some of the deaths were horrendous, being run over by a vehicle multiple times, being stoned to death, burned to death, strangulation. I was not surprised which countries the murders happened and kind of numb in regards to how these murders were done which in and of itself is scary. Not being numb comes from things I have been involved with not related to these tragedies so all I can do is try and guess at what goes through the minds and hearts of their love one’s. This is the page for 2015 with statistics going back to 2007. The general public needs to take note that the majority of trans people are transgender because of a chemical imbalance in their brain. Many times work in the sex trade because they have no choice or have no self esteem because family, friends and those whom they are in contact with see and treat them as trash because they are afraid of things they don’t understand and the big one is it’s how they were raised.

Hiya Karen. The title of Your Blog is very apt - Simply Horrible. Karen, I have read All the Names, and Causes of Death. Karen, it is so sad, especially some of the Young Ages. Karen, Thank You for bringing this to Our attention. Karen, You said about the General Public, and Their awareness. Unfortunately, some People are just Ignorant, Full-Stop ! Karen, Kind, Decent, Caring People like Your Good Self, Help greatly to raise awareness of the Transsexual/Transgender Communities. Karen, Thank You Very Much. Take Care, With My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Christie Anne. Well Sweetheart, things are certainly going well for You, and I Am so Pleased for You. Christie, You are such a Lovely Lady, and You Deserve nice things to happen for You. I hope that things work out for You, with The Young Lady. Fingers and Toes, and Everything Else crossed for You as well. Christie Anne, Enjoy the rest of the Weekend. Speak Soon, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xx

Can't wait for that myself

Hiya Jay. Thank You So Much, for Your Kind Words, Young Man. Your Kindness is very much appreciated. I have known My Best Mate, since We were very Young, and We normally telephone each other, 4 or 5 times a week, every week. He and I have been, and always will be, totally supportive, of each other. I have another Good Mate, who is also very supportive. He is Not worried, if, when We meet up, I Am wearing a top or blouse and skirt, or a dress, or ladies leather trousers, or jeans. But, My Best Mate knows about TS/TG People, and so He is totally supportive. I have My 9,Year-Old Son, is My Best Friend, as well as being My Son. He loves Me Wearing lovely Female Clothes, and He has even helped Me to Choose Some, and helped Me buy some. Jay, I Am so Glad, that You and Your Lovely Husband, are so close. You lucky chap. I hope that things continue to go from strength, for You Both. Jay, as for Family, My Parent's helped to blow Our Extensive Family, right apart, Very Many Year's Ago. I have Not spoken to them since. Through other Family Member's, My Parent's could have contacted Our Children, Their Own Grandchildren, but, They have Not so much, as sent any of Our Children card's, or anything, ever ! They are just too roped up, in Their Own sad little lives ! Jay, Cherish Your Dad. He sounds like a Good Man. My Late In Law's, They were Great as Grandparent's. Sadly, They are no longer with Us, and Both Passed Away, after Serious Illnesses. Jay, I wish You and Your Husband, A Wonderful, Weekend. I Am just on a Bus, on My Regular Friday Evening Journey, to Pink Punters, The L.G.B.T. Nightclub, a few miles away from Home. Jay, Please stay in touch, Thank You So Much, for Your Kindness. Good Luck, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, to You, and Your Husband, Love Stephanie. xoxo