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Bree, My oh my, what a great writer you are. It may sound trite, but, thank you for sharing this. You have a lot to teach me. I certainly knew that boys and girls were different at a much earlier age, in nursery school. The boys were taught to shake hands, the girls to curtsey. Even then, I wanted to curtsey with the girls, and I knew I was not supposed to want that. I don't know how or why, I just knew. Youre quite correct, we are much less free than we may think. Compared to others around the world though, we are fortunate and I'm grateful. Reading your post, im grateful to know you and to be part of this community. Hugs, Emma

Hiya Emma. You are Very Welcome Honey. I Am a typical girl. I Love undies and clothes shopping. Like You Emma, I Love My dresses. I spend most of My time in dresses, but I do like My Skirt's and Top's at other times, especially Leather Skirt's. On the odd occasion's, I wear Leather Trousers, or Jeans. Emma, You have got a Lovely figure by the way. I just wish that We could see Your lovely face in Photograph's as well. Emma Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

Dear Stephanie, Thank you for your kind compliments! The dress is pretty, isn't it? I got it on Amazon. I had not been intending to shop but you know how they send you emails with advertisements, and this dress caught my eye. Next thing I knew it was on its way to me. Thank you again. Your words mean a lot to me. Emma

Dear Lovely Lisa, As a cisgender Lesbian mid-butch, my heart goes out to you. When I dated (for ten years) the love of my life, a transwoman who identified as a mid-femme Lesbian, the Lesbian community turned against me, saying I was not a Lesbian, but must be a bisexual, and that I was certainly not a butch! Certainly I know who I am! The only comment that I would like to make about your situation is that very likely your wife was attracted to your feminine energy and found you "very different than all the men I have dated in the past." Please allow yourself some time to heal, before dating again, and I would strongly recommend you (and your wife, too), get counseling, even if you feel you don't need it, to be sure of where you stand, before proceeding. My heart goes out to both of you. Yours truly, Monica

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Hiya Michele. You Darling Girl have got a Gorgeous Smile, with a Very Pretty Face. You have also got lovely shiny white teeth. Michele, I know that You Are able to look after Yourself, but Sweetheart, Please Take Care. Michele, there are some Horny B@#£%&s out there, and You do Do need to be very careful. With Transitioning Myself, I have learnt to be Extra Vigilant, about My Own Safety, and also I Do care, about My Friend's, and You Are one of My Friend's, here. Michele, You Are a Very Beautiful, Pretty, Young Lady, and Your Safety Does Matter. It Is okay to smile sweetly at People, but, You don't know what half of Them, are Actually like. Michele, Your Photograph's are Lovely, and You have got Lovely Hazel Brown Eyes as well. Michele, Take Care Honey, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxx

He does make it way harder on himself and everyone else around him. I'm hoping the therapy helps

Hiya Bree. My goodness Young Lady, You are such an articulate writer. As a MtoF Transitioning Transsexual, I can say that I have known since aged 3, that I have known that I Am Female; Trapped; in A Male Body. I could Not understand as a Child, why I could Not wear Pretty Dresses or Skirt's and Blouses or Pretty Top's, and why at event's, that I had to Bow, anCurtsey. Obviously I Now know that part of this is to do with the Gender Dysphoria. I wanted to play Netball like the rest of the Girl's, but I could Not understand, why I was Not allowed. Move forwards to Today, and now living Fully; Full-Time as a Female, I now get to wear All the Gorgeous; Pretty; Female Underwear and Clothes, and I Buy All My own Undies and Clothing. I could Not be Happier. But, to have to suppress All of this, for such a Large chunk of My Life, was so hard at the time. Bree, You have shown All of Us here, what a Lovely, Decent, Very Intelligent Young Lady, that You are. Bree, You and Nikki have Both been through a lot together, in the last 3 Month's. The thing is that You Are able to communicate with each other, and with Us here as well. Bree, I know that You are in a job that You hate, but, if You can bear with it for just a little bit longer, then hopefully, You Will be able to get out of it. ( Some Bosses, are just SO bad, and I know that, from Personal Experiences. ). Bree, You and Nikki, can Both be Very Proud, of just How Far, that You have Both come in the last 3 Month's. Enjoy the rest of the Weekend. Bree, You and Nikki Both Take Care, And My Love , and Very Best Wishes to You Both, Stephanie. xxxx

Hiya Sweet Emma Sweet ! Your Gorgeous Pretty Pink Dress, is Gorgeous. ( Where did You Buy it from ? ). You have a lovely figure, and lovely leg's Emma. It Is about time, that You Got paid some Compliments. Emma, You are always being so kind, and supportive, to everybody else Sweetheart, and We DO appreciate that greatly. Emma, You Deserve to be Happy. Being a MtoF Transitioning Transsexual Myself, I understand how hard that the " Trans. " Life, can be. I have now been " Out " as Transsexual, for over 11 Month's. ( Where does Time go ? ). Emma, Be Happy Young Lady. Enjoy the rest of the Weekend Honey. Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

Hiya Lisa. I can totally understand where You are in Life. My own Wife, has been cheating on Me, for about 1 1/2 Year's, with other Men, and other Women. I " Came-Out " as a MtoF Transsexual, on 30 the. April, 2015, to My Wife. On 1st. May, 2015, I started Buying and Wearing Female Undies and Clothing, and being " Out " in Public, on the Same Day, as well. Lisa, You are so gracious, in Your attitude towards Your Wife. ( We have 3 Special-Needs-Children, ages 14 ; 11 ; and 10 . Hence the Only reason, We are still underunder the same roof, but, Our Physical Relationship is long over ! ). If I were to find another Trans-Woman, who lived fairly close-by, who I were to get in a relationship with, I would be happy enough. It might never happen, but, who knows ! Lisa, I Love Your Gorgeous Photograph's By the way. You are a Very Beautiful, Pretty, Young Lady. Lisa, I Wish You All the Best for the Future Honey. Have a Good Evening. Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Hugs, Stephanie. xx

Dear Lisa, Wow, your post touches on one of my deepest fears. I'm glad for you that you seem to be handling it okay. That said, I hope you have someone near by that you can talk to and, maybe, grieve with. I'm like you in that as a woman I'm very much a lesbian. I guess that if I was to transition I might explore myself with men but as it is now I cannot imagine it. But I would like to have the door held open for me from time to time. :-) You have my very best wishes, Emma

Veronica, thank you for those kind words and your support. I don't want anyone to cry, though. :-) I have never loved someone so much that I am willing to let her go and be happy. At times it is upsetting and heartbreaking for me because she has been everything to me. At the same time, I have grown being married to her and in my walk with the Lord. Love is and should be unconditional. Otherwise it is not really love. And I love her unconditionally. I really do hope she finds a wonderful guy. And I am hopeful that my children handle it well. Both my transition and the new guy. Whomever that is or will be.