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Dear Ben, Good to hear from you as always. You are enough - you are more than enough. You're terrific. I agree that sometimes it's hard to say that life gets better. It's kind of scary as if tempting fate to smack us back down for the hubris of uttering such a thing. I think life does get better, though, and we emerge stronger and happier. Hugs, Emma

Sadly, Briannah, she is involved with my neighbor (a female), and my dear friend (a man) has taken her back, despite all her infidelities. At first, I considered being friends with her, as long as my male friend was present in our company, but decided that she is not only too toxic for a relationship, but also for a friendship. Saw how she treated her so-called friends when I was in relationship with her. It goes without saying, that if a person is a toxic friend, they DEFINITELY will be a toxic romantic partner!

Hugs Monica. Relationships are all complicated, since they involve two or more human beings and all of us are complicated somehow, and that sort of behavior is absolutely tiring. I completely understand why you feel that way! I'm glad that you are so intuitive with what is going on and knowing how to protect your feelings in this mess! And that is a very sad, very clear sign that she will never get better, because she doesn't really want it. I'm so sorry you had to go through that.