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Hiya "Mister" Jay. Jay, It Is so good when You get treated decently, and My Bank's Staff know that I Am A Transitioning MtoF Transsexual, even though I have Not yet used Deed Poll, ( but, I intend to early in The New Year ), but a lot of the bank Staff do use My Female Name. ( I Am Really Happy about that though ! Most of My Friend's Do Use My Female Name All the Time, Thankfully ! Jay, It Will be really nice to have All Your Document's in Your "Proper" Name. Good on You Jay. Good Luck Young Man, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Jackson. That is a Lovely Festive Scene. Thank You for sharing it with Us Young Man. Have Fum with the Christmas Decoration's. Take Care With My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie.

Hiya Karen. I Personally have a dormant Facebook account, but, when I have got some spare time, I will close it down. I dislike Facebook, and I think that it it more trouble, than it is worth. Karen, it makes no difference to how I feel about You as a Friend. Karen You are a lovely lady. Karen, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xx

Hiya Karen. The title of Your Blog is very apt - Simply Horrible. Karen, I have read All the Names, and Causes of Death. Karen, it is so sad, especially some of the Young Ages. Karen, Thank You for bringing this to Our attention. Karen, You said about the General Public, and Their awareness. Unfortunately, some People are just Ignorant, Full-Stop ! Karen, Kind, Decent, Caring People like Your Good Self, Help greatly to raise awareness of the Transsexual/Transgender Communities. Karen, Thank You Very Much. Take Care, With My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Jay, and Karen. Karen, that is One Expression, that I will have to remember. It Is a Simple, but, Effective Expression. Jay, this is the thing about TGGuide, when Lovely Friends, like Karen Payne, give advice like that, which is Great. Karen, Thank You. Jay, and Karen, enjoy the rest of the Weekend, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xx

Hiya Christie Anne. Well Sweetheart, things are certainly going well for You, and I Am so Pleased for You. Christie, You are such a Lovely Lady, and You Deserve nice things to happen for You. I hope that things work out for You, with The Young Lady. Fingers and Toes, and Everything Else crossed for You as well. Christie Anne, Enjoy the rest of the Weekend. Speak Soon, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xx

Hiya Jay. Thank You So Much, for Your Kind Words, Young Man. Your Kindness is very much appreciated. I have known My Best Mate, since We were very Young, and We normally telephone each other, 4 or 5 times a week, every week. He and I have been, and always will be, totally supportive, of each other. I have another Good Mate, who is also very supportive. He is Not worried, if, when We meet up, I Am wearing a top or blouse and skirt, or a dress, or ladies leather trousers, or jeans. But, My Best Mate knows about TS/TG People, and so He is totally supportive. I have My 9,Year-Old Son, is My Best Friend, as well as being My Son. He loves Me Wearing lovely Female Clothes, and He has even helped Me to Choose Some, and helped Me buy some. Jay, I Am so Glad, that You and Your Lovely Husband, are so close. You lucky chap. I hope that things continue to go from strength, for You Both. Jay, as for Family, My Parent's helped to blow Our Extensive Family, right apart, Very Many Year's Ago. I have Not spoken to them since. Through other Family Member's, My Parent's could have contacted Our Children, Their Own Grandchildren, but, They have Not so much, as sent any of Our Children card's, or anything, ever ! They are just too roped up, in Their Own sad little lives ! Jay, Cherish Your Dad. He sounds like a Good Man. My Late In Law's, They were Great as Grandparent's. Sadly, They are no longer with Us, and Both Passed Away, after Serious Illnesses. Jay, I wish You and Your Husband, A Wonderful, Weekend. I Am just on a Bus, on My Regular Friday Evening Journey, to Pink Punters, The L.G.B.T. Nightclub, a few miles away from Home. Jay, Please stay in touch, Thank You So Much, for Your Kindness. Good Luck, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, to You, and Your Husband, Love Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Jay. My Own Wife, does Not like the fact that I AmAm a MtoF Transitioning Transsexual. ( I Came-Out to Her, on 30th. April, 2015. ) Yet She has been cheating on Me, for 2 Year's now, with Other Men, and Other Women. ( She is a Real Hypocrite ! ) If She was supposed to be meeting up with another ( Person ), and They have had to Postpone it, She Will gouge My Arm's with Her Finger-Nail's, out of Spite ! ( She Has been doing that for Year's. She has even gouged My Lower Eye-Lid's, and My Neck, over the Year's ! ). Jay, there is an old Yorkshire, England saying - "There's nowt so queer as Folk !". Jay, "You can choose Your Friend's, but, sadly, You cannot choose Your Family. Your Friend's, They Are the Family, Who You choose for Yourself !" These expression's, are so Very True ! I want out of Our Home, and Marriage, it may well be in The New Year, now. I Am left to do Most of the household chores, so Family reaction's, They can be horrible. Jay, You and Your Husband, Look After Yourselves, and Each Other. Good Luck, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes to You Both, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Eve. Happy 1st. Birthgirlday, Young Lady. Good on You, Eve. Where does time go ? Well It Is Now Over, 7 Month's, since I Came-Out, as Transsexual, and been Fully; Full-Time; Female-Dressing, and Living; and I Am A typical girl, for My Undies; Nightwear; Clothing; and Footwear Shopping. Eve enjoy celebrating Your 1st. Birthgirlday. Enjoy ! Speak Soon, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes. Big Hug's, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Jackson, and Emma. Gender Dysphoria is Horrid. I Know that from My Own Personal Experience. Every Day, for as Many Year's that I can remember, I have Woken-Up, wishing that I got Female Part's, in place of those part's, which I have always Hated. Since I Came-Out as Transsexual, on 30th. April, 2015, I have felt really Feminine, and I Am so Happy with those feeling's as well. I have learnt to try to control the Dysphoria, but, it never completely goes away, nor will it, until I get on H.R.T. Take Care, With My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie.

Hiya Jackson. Karen's advice is very sound. Androgynous Clothing, is very sound advice. ( I wish I had been able to choose what I wore, when I was a Youngster. ). Jackson, how about a shirt and jumper, and a pair of trousers, as a suggestion ? It Is only a suggestion Young Man, as I Am Not going to tell You what to do ! Jackson, a compromise is worthwhile thinking about. Good Luck Young Man, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie.

Hiya Jay. I Am sure You will be Okay. It will be good to get things like name-changes sorted out at work. If People cannot accept You for who You are, then they are the one's with the problem's. Jay, You just hold Your head up high, and be Proud of Who You are. Those who matter, will support You, but, those who don't support You, don't matter. That is My Own theory anyway. Jay, Good Luck, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Jackson. You are certainly very talented Young Man. Well Done. I agree with Karen, about being able to see the dysphoria, in them, with regards to facial expressions. Karen has also made an excellent suggestion, in regards to keeping a diary. It might help. Jackson, at least You are doing something constructive, with Your time, by doing Your Drawing's Young Man. You have got a Real Talent there. I wish that I could draw like that. ( Technical Drawing's I can do, but, I was taught to do those, by a Mate, when I was only around 10 Year's of Age. He was a Professional Draughtsman. ). Jackson, keep up with the brilliant drawing's, and I would love to see some more. Jackson, Take Care Young Man, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie.

Hiya Christie, and Eve. I have a Dormant Facebook Account. I will, when I have got time, close it down. I had too many problem's with it, so I Am Not intending to use it again. Christie well done, for ignoring the idiot's in the street. That is All that people like that are worth - ignoring !! Christie, Your words are so eloquent. Taking a Negative, and turning it into a Positive, is Brilliant ! Eve and Christie, Have a Good Evening. and Take Care. With My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xx

Hiya Blair Jamie. Today's Blog, was Fantastic. Having Lovely Phoebe Harris, with You, was absolutely Fantastic. This Blog had Me in Fits Of Laughter. Blair, Please bring Phoebe on to Your Blog's, on a Regular Basis, as the 2 of You, are obviously very close Friend's. ( The Stuff-Up's, at the end's of Your Blog's, are Brilliant ! ) Blair Jamie, since I Came-Out, as Transsexual, the only Coca-Cola, that I Enjoy drinking now, is Coke Zero. I drink a lot of Water, sometimes I will Drink Tea, but, I like Drinking Coffee, as well. Blair Jamie, shaving is definitely cheaper than waxing. Blair Jamie, You are a lovely Young Lady, with a Fantastic sense of Humour. ( My Jokes can be very silly ! ) My Catchphrase for Myself is, As I Get Older, The Jokes Get Worse ! ( For Example :- I won't take a Fence, I will just take the Gate-Post Instead ! ). Now You can See What I Mean. Back to the sensible, for a Moment. I Personally, Will be very Glad, When I get to Go, on HRT. I want T-Blocker's, as well. Blair Jamie, Keep Smiling, Please Keep "Queen B's" Blog's Coming. Blair Jamie, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

Hiya Karen. Happy Thanksgiving Young Lady. Karen, I Am So Glad, that You are Happy behind belief, since Your Gender Reassignment Surgery. You deserve to be Happy. I Am Pleased that You are able to spend Thanksgiving with Your Friend's. Karen, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

Hiya Jack. I Am glad that the counselling is Helpful, to You. The Great thing is that You have Your friend Haylee, who You are able to openly talk to. ( I Have got My Best Mate, who I speak with, normally 4 or 5 times, every week, by Phone. He lives about 25 Miles away, but We have been Mate's since We were both Young, and Best Mate's for at least 32 Year's, and We both trust each other Fully. We always have done ! ) Jack, if You can keep That sort of Friendship, with Haylee, a Life-Long one, that will be excellent. Jack, as You are doing Research on the Subject, have You asked Your Counsellor, if He knows any support group's, near You, for FtoM Youth ? It Is just an idea Young Man. ( Myself, for support, I go to a Lesbian; Gay; Bi-Sexual; Transgender/Transsexual Nightclub. I can get support from Member's of Their Transgender Advisory Group, and other MtoF Transsexual People there ! ) We All need some support whilst Transitioning. Jack, if You stay in touch with TGGuide, and You need any advice, and/or help, this is a Brilliant place to try. Please don't self-harm again. ( I tried the "S" word, 3 times, in a 7 1/2 Year Period. I Promise I will Not ever go there again ! ). Since I Came-Out as Transsexual, I have had a lot of Friend's, who are supporting Me, and one Good Friend, She is turned 80 Year's of Age, and She understands All about My Transsexuality. ( Bless Her ! ) Jack, You said You hold Your Head High. Well be Very Proud of that Young Man. You said about "The Icy Stare's", well I have No contact with My Parent's whatsoever, and have Not done so, for almost 18 Year's. My Mother tried to interfere with My Life, right into Adulthood. Jack, You just keep that level head Young Man, and Please keep Your Friendship with Haylee special. Jack, have a Good Evening, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie.

Hiya Karen. That interview was very interesting. My one bit of advice to You - Don't be so Critical of Yourself. Karen, You are a Very Beautiful Lady, You are very intelligent. If anyone criticises You for how You look or anything, tell them to go and take a running jump. Karen You are Awesome; and, You are You. Good on You for taking part in that interview. You were Brilliant ! I hope the Car Meeting goes well at the Weekend. Karen, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Jack. Welcome to TGGuide. As Karen says "Be careful to how You continue Your journey, regarding communication with Your Parent's, play it smart, don't push them too hard, simply put Yourself in Their shoes, and try to work from there. These Blogs, are a great outlet, so by all means, write away." Here on TGGuide, You can gain All sorts of Advice, and Information. Jack, Good Luck with Your FtoM Transitioning. Jack, I Am Personally Transitioning, from MtoF, and I Am 53 Year's Old, and I have known, since I was 3 Year's of Age, that I Am Female; Trapped; In A Male Body. I can therefore understand, how You feel, but in reverse. Jack, You are only Young, and You have got a whole lifetime ahead of You. I think, that if You take Your time, things will work out alright for You. I Came-Out, as Transsexual, on 30th. April, 2015, and I started Buying, and Wearing Female Undies, and Clothing, and being "Out" in Public, in 1st. May, 2015. I have been Fully; Full-Time; Female Dressed; and Living, ever since. Jack, enjoy Your Transitioning, Keep in touch with TGGuide, Good Luck; Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie.

Hiya Christie Anne. It Is Good News that Your Brother, is Supporting You - His Little Sister. Christie, I Personally only have one sister, and no brother's. I have yet tospeak with her. As she lives about 450 miles or so away from Me. We have never been very close, either optionally, or mileage-wise. I have been very lucky, that My Life-Long Best Mate, ( who has always been the nearest thing, that I have had to a Brother, ); is being very supportive of Me transitioning. He knows all about Transsexuality, and Transgenderism, as His now ex-Mother-In-Law, was a proper counsellorcounsellor, for the Transsexual, and Transgender Community. So at least I Have got someone who Is sticking by Me, even if My Own Wife, is Not supportive. Christie. I hope very much that You are keeping well, and I trust that the rest of Your Transitioning is going okay Young Lady. Christie, Look after Yourself, Happy Thanksgiving, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Blair Jamie. Eve is right, about how confident You now look on Your latest video. Your are right Sweetheart about Not re-living Our Past Mistakes. One other stupid, and silly mistake that I made, having Asthma, was to smoke, from just before the Age of 9, until just after I turned the Age of 42. I will be 54, just before Christmas, and 3rd. January, will see Me as an ex-smoker, for 12 Year's, and I will never, ever, smoke again either. My only vice now, is that when I go out on Friday Night's, I do like to drink a few White Wine and Lemonade's. ( I Am a typical Female really ! ). Blair Jamie, I look forward to Your Next Blog Honey. Keep Smiling, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

Hiya Blair Jamie. It Is so Nice to see You looking happier Sweetheart. By the Way, I do like the Pretty Top's, You were wearing in Today's blog. You spoke about Your Past. Well Darling Girl, We All have Past's. I Am Not Proud to admit, that Yes, very many year's ago, I did do Amphetamine Sulphate ( Speed - to anyone Who does Not know ! ), and also Cannabis. This Was well over 20 Year's Ago, and I can Promise that I will never, ever, do that again. Blair Jamie, We All have bad day's Love, no matter what walk of Life, or Who We are. If You are feeling down, or Sad, just Say. It Is far better than bottling it All up, and blowing a gasket. You are a very courageous Young Lady, and to see Your hair growing is good. I have been growing My Own Hair, for over a Year, now. For the first time ever, My Hair is down past My collar. I quite often have My Hair in a Pony-Tail, otherwise, I just wear it down. Blair Jamie, just keep being Yourself, and I will definitely keep watching Your Blog's, as they are so informative. Blair Jamie, those Who matter, Will be there for You, no matter what. ( Those Who are Not there for You, don't matter ! ). That is what I have come to realise, since I Came-Out, almost 7 Month:s ago. Blair Jamie, Take Care, With My Very Best Wishes, Love, Stephanie. xx

Hiya Blair Jamie. Darling Girl. If You and I lived near each other, I would be giving You a Big Hug, and Cuddle. Because, right now, it sounds like, that is what You could use. You are an absolutely Fantastic Young Lady, and I for one Sweetheart, being a Transitioning MtoF Transsexual, am following Your Blog's. Blair Jamie, believe Me when I say this to You Please. You ARE "The Transgender Teenager", who definitely "IS" Making a Difference to Other People's Lives ! Blair Jamie, I really wish that I could have "Come-Out", as Transsexual, when I was 17, My Life could have been so much better, earlier. Since "Coming-Out", almost 7 Month's ago, My Life has vastly improved. Sweetheart, Please Do NOT Give Up what You are doing, You are such a Lovely; Kind; Considerate; Decent; Pretty; and Beautiful; Young Lady, and You REALLY Deserve to be Happy, Darling. If somebody else, has put any doubt, into Your Head, could it be, that They are Jealous, or even unable to come-out, themselves ? Blair Jamie, Keep Going, because, I for one, am going to keep watching Your Blog's.( The Last One, nearly made Me cry ! ) Good Luck, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Bianca/KourtneyB. My Wife tells Me that I Am being selfish, because I started Transitioning in the first place. Yet, She has been cheating on Me, for 2 Year's, with Other Men, and Other Women. So Who is being Selfish ? Bianca, You carry-on with Your Transitioning Sweetheart. As I said about Myself, I kept things hidden away for 50 Year's, but, in the end, the Mask slipped away, to Never, Ever, Return. I Have made 3 Suicide Attempt's, between August, 1988, and February, 1996. I won't Ever try that again ! Bianca, You continue with Your Transitioning Sweetheart. Also, No, You are Not being Selfish. The Mask has finally slipped Love. Please, be True to Yourself, and Yes, if it means putting Yourself first, for the first time in Your Life, well then Good On You. Bianca, as My Friend's have been telling Me, I Am entitled to live My life, and Bianca,:so are You entitled to live Your Life too ! I have been Fully; Full-Time; Female-Dressed; and Living; for Very Nearly 7 Month's, Now, and as a Person, I have Never, Ever, been Happier. If You can find a Trans.-Friendly venue, that You can visit Regularly, that too might help You. It has certainly helped Me, and I go out once a Week, to Pink Punters, at Fenny Stratford, near Milton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, UK. I stay over, at the Campanile Hotel, which is 3 minutes Walk, across the Road, from the Nightclub. Pink Punters is the World Famous L.G.B.T. venue. Bianca, just doing something like that Sweetheart, may help You out. If You would like to Speak with Me, just let Me Know, because it does Help to chat. Bianca, Good Luck, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Today, Friday, 20th. November, 2015, is the Annual; International; Transgender Day Of Remembrance - ( TDOR ) . Let's Wear Something Purple, in Support Of The Rainbow Flag. If We Can't make it to A Comemorative Event, then We Can still show Our Support, for those Less Fortunate, than Ourselves, Who have lost Their Lives, at the Hands of Other's, or Have Taken Their Own Lives. Here in the UK, We should remember the Transgender Lady, Who had been put into an All-Male Prison, at Leeds, in West Yorkshire. Sadly, She took Her Own Life, in the Last Few Day's ! I WILL Wear Something Purple Today, as I Am a 53 Year-Old; Transitioning Male-to-Female Transsexual, Myself. Please, join Me, and Other's around the World, in showing Our Support Today, this Transgender Day Of Remembrance - ( TDOR ) . Thank You Very Much. Regards, Stephanie.