Steph53

Hiya Michele. Good on You Honey. I Am so glad that You have found someone, who Loves You, for being You. My Marriage is all but over, with a "Cheating Wife" ! So, it is Lovely to hear some Good News, from You. Michele, You are a very Beautiful, Pretty, Young Lady, and Your Boyfriend Obviously recognises that too ! Sweetie, I hope that things go from strength to strength for You. Michele, Good Health, Good Luck, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Lisa. I Came-Out, as Transsexual, to My Wife, on 30th. April, 2015, and I started Fully, Full-Time, Female-Dressing, and Living, on 1st. May, 2015. I have known, since I was 3 Year's of Age, that I Am Female, Trapped, in A Male Body. I have always hated My Male Part's, and I wish I could wake up in the Morning's, and that they were no longer there. My Transsexuality was Officially Registered, at My Doctor's, on 25th. June, 2015, and on that same date, My Doctor's Registered it Officially, at London's Charing Cross Hospital - Gender Identity Clinic. I want to Fully Transition, including Gender Reassignment Surgery. Coming-Oout, was like having a Massive Weight, Lifted-Off Both Of My Shoulder's ! I Am so much Happier, Now, than I have Ever been before ! Lisa, it is such a very hard thing to do, to Come-Out to a Spouse, and Family, and Friend's ! My Marriage, is Only alive on paper, and We have 3 Special-Needs-Children, so just for the time being, We are still under the same roof. She however, has been cheating on Our Marriage, for over 22 Month's, with other Men, and Women !! My Friend's have stuck by Me like glue, and Er-Indoors hates that fact. But then, I Am in the wrong for criticising anything that She says or does. Funny That, as I Am the one who does All the Washing; Washing-Up, and Drying-Up; Vacuum- Cleaning; and Most of The Cooking, ( A Woman's Work, Is Never, Ever Done ! ), whilst She Messages on Her Phone, mainly to other Women ! Lisa, the sooner that You are Full-Time, the Happier I think it will make You feel. The Gender Dysphoria, can be Nasty. I Now go One Night a Week, to Pink Punters, which is a Lesbian; Gay; Bisexual; Transgender; Club. It is in a place called Fenny Stratford, which is about 20 Miles, from where I Live, here in the UK. Lisa, try finding somewhere like that, which is Fully Welcoming and Accepting, of Transsexual People, Etc. You might find that it Helps ! Lisa, Good Luck, Take Care, and Like Christie said, if I can also help, Please let Me know, and Ibwill try. With My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxoxoxo

Hiya Christie Anne. I Am so Pleased that things are going well for You. You deserve it Christie, because You are such a Lovely, Sincere Lady. It is always great to hear of someone whose job, is going well. I have yet to start getting rid of My Male Clothes. They may well be bagged-up, and given to Our 3 Son's, as They are getting older. I Do like the cape You have bought. You can be Very Proud of How Far that You have come, and How Well that You are Doing. Clothes-Wise, I Love Female-Clothes shopping, as one girl who works in Our local Supermarket, said to Me, a few days ago, I Am a typical Female, as I Love retail therapy. Christie, Good on You for donating Your other Clothing to Charity. If mine don't get kept for Our Son's, then I Will wash them All, and Donate them to Charity, Myself. Christie, Good Luck, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes to You. xoxo Stephanie.

Hiya Bianca. I Am Stephanie, a 53 Year-Old MtoF Transsexual. I have a Wife, who Herself is Bi-Sexual, and She is having Physical Relationship's with Other Female's, and Male's. Our Relationship is Completely Gone. We are still under the same roof, at the moment, but once a week, I now go to an LGBT Club, on a Friday Night, called Pink Punters, which is about 20 Miles away from Home, and I stay in A Local Hotel to the Club, as well. All the Friend's I have who matter, are being totally Supportive of My Transsexuality. Bianca, by sharing on here, You are Not alone, but, Karen Payne has given You some Great Advice as well. You, like Me, might try to find a Club to go to. Bianca, I Am in the UK, and anyone wanting to know where Pink Punters is, it is 2 Watling Street, Fenny Stratford, near Milton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, United Kingdom. It is totally Lesbian; Gay; Bisexual; Transgender/Transsexual; orientated. The Staff, Door-Staff, and everyone else are lovely. Bianca, I Came-Out as Transsexual, on 30th. April, 2015, and I have been Fully, Full-Time; Female-Dressed, and Living; since 1st. May, 2015, which includes being out in Public, as well. Bianca, seeing Your Photograph, You are a very Pretty, Beautiful Young Lady. Good Luck, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Christie Ann. I Am so Glad that things are going well for You. Firstly, Congratulations on Your upcoming Name Change. Also, Congratulations on Your Work Promotion. I Am Very Glad that Your Family are accepting of Your Transition. Christie, You should be very Proud of Yourself, and how Far You have already come. You are a Lovely Lady. Good Luck, Take Care, and Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Karen. It sounds like I have All that to look forward to, after I eventually have GRS ! Karen, it sounds like You are having fun Really ! L.O.L. Ha ! Ha ! Karen, it is still fairly early on in Your Proper Life ! I Am only very early in My Pre-Op. Transitioning. Coming-Out as Transsexual, 4 1/2 Month's Ago, has made Me the happiest, that I have been, ever since I first realised, at 3 Year's of Age, that I Am Female, Trapped In A Male Body. I Am 53 Year's of Age, Now. Karen, You are one Lady, who really inspires Me, and also makes Me Laugh ! By the way, how is the New Car going ? I hope it is giving You hour's of fun ! Karen, Keep Smiling, Be Good, No Don't Be Good ! Enjoy Yourself Instead ! Take Care, With Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Bianca/Kourtney. Sweetheart, Sadly the fighting, even verbally, is Awful. Honey, I Know. I Am Pre-Op, MtoF Transsexual, and I Came-Out, on 30th. April, 2015. My Wife "Hates Me". The thing is, that She is having Sexual Relationship's, with Several Different Women, but, She does Not see that, as Cheating on Our Marriage. The Verbal, and Physical Abuse, and Violence, that I have Suffered, mean that I will carry the scarring on Both My Lower-Eye-Lid's, and on Both My Arm's, for Life ! Bianca, I Am going for Legal Advice, this coming week, as We also have a violent Special-Needs Child, Who keeps on attacking Me. I no longer feel safe at Home ! Please Bianca, if You are in Anywhere near a similar sort of thing, Please sort it out ! Being Transsexual, and being fully "Out" including being fully "Out" in Public, is something that has made Me really Happy ! With everything that is going on in My Life, it is Not going to dent My Happiness. Bianca, Look After Yourself, Take Care, and, My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xx

Hiya Dexxy. My Handbag is My Lifeline too. Keys, Purse, Perfume, Money, Personal Attack Alarms, and Much More. I would be lost without My Handbag.

Hiya Eve. I thought You might like to wear an anorak, but. I did Not Know, that You had turned into one, as well. I will have to Pull the hood over that comment, and keep thing's Zipped, also ! Ha ! Ha ! L.O.L. !!!! Sorry Eve Love. As I Get Older, The Jokes Get Worse ! If You want an anorak, Earlier, I mentioned Hedgerley. Well London Transport's Country Area, 441,and 441B, RT/RML Double-Decker Bus Service Routes, used to operate there, from Staines-Upon-Thames ( ST ) Garage, and Windsor ( WR ) Garage. I can still tell You the Regular Garage Codes, and Running Number's, and the Regular Vehicles, on those Duties. Now I Must Be, an Anorak ! Eve and Maybelle, Happy Holiday. Take Care, and Safe Journey's. With Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xxxx

Hiya Eve. I Love the Photograph's. Sharon looks very Proud, carrying two pint's of Cider ! I Love the Countryside, Myself, Eve. I was brought up in a Village, called Hedgerley. It is off the A355, between Farnham Common, and Beaconsfield, and nearby to the B416, between Gerrard's Cross; Stoke Poges; and Fulmer. Incidentally, the M40 Motorway, Junction 2, is very close by. Hedgerley, is a Village of 2 Halves. The older part, is down a 1 in 8 Hill, and has the St. Mary's C.of E. Church; ( Built in the Early 1800's, with 6 "Chimed" Bell's ) ; the Village War Memorial Hall; and The White Horse Inn, ( With its Real Ale's ). Up the top of Hedgerley Hill, You have the Playing Field, with its Rugby Pitch, and Children's Play-Area; Kemsley Wood, with the Youth Club Hut; and 1st. Hedgerley Scout Troop Hut; and a Village Shop. There is a 2-Hourly Mon.to Sat. Daytime 583 Bus Service, between Uxbridge, and Slough. In Farnham Common, there is of course, the Wonderful Burnham Beeches. ( Great for Walking ! ). So You can see, walking used to be in My Blood, long before We moved into Aylesbury. ( By the way, which Steam Train is that Please Eve ? ) Take Care, Speak Soon, With Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xx

Hiya Brigsby. Fortunately, You can choose Your Friends, But, Unfortunately, You cannot choose Your Family ! Your Friends, they are the Family, that You choose for Yourself ! Brigsby, My Parent's blew My Family apart, nearly 18 Year's ago. My Mother, is Nothing but a Complete Control Freak ! I have had No contact whatsoever, with Most of My Family, since. There were just 10, that I did, and the only 2, that I did see, are now sadly passed-away. The only contact I have with the other 8, is card's in the post, on Birthday's, and Christmas. Brigsby, cherish Your True Friend's, the one's who stick by You no matter what ! Here at TGGuide, You are in a Very Safe, and Friendly Environment. Brigsby, I Came-Out, as Transsexual, on 30th. April, 2015; and I started Fully, Full-Time, Female-Dressing, and Living, on 1st. May, 2015. I Am happier now, than ever Before ! Brigsby, I truly hope, that You can find Happiness ! My advice, to You, would be to completely cut ties, with Your Family, change Phone Number's, change E-Mail Addresses, Etc. ( I know it might be hard to do, but, it will be well worth it ! ). Brigsby, Live Your Life, for Yourself ! Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes to You. Regards, Stephanie.

Hiya Karen. I Love Your Photograph, in Your Car. Karen, I hope You are having fun. I Don't blame You for not taking any Messing ! Your Own Safety comes first !

Hiya Bianca. Greetings from the UK. That is a Very Pretty Photograph of You. ( Very Sexy ! ) Good Luck with the singing Sweetheart. As long as You can get to enjoy Your singing, then Good on You ! Bianca, Take Care, With Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Bianca/Kourtney. I Am Steph53. Welcome to TGGuide. You are in Great Company here. Enjoy Your stay ! Take Care, With Best Wishes, Stephie.

Hiya Warren. "Suicide" ! Please Don't Do That. I Am talking as Someone Who HAS Made 3 Serious Suicide Attempts. They Were Between August 1988, and Spring 1996. Warren, Please, Please Don't Do It ! If EVER You Need To Talk, Find Me On Here, and I WILL Listen. I Suspect Many Other's On Here WILL Listen Too ! Warren You Young Man, Are Not Alone ! I Am Sorry To Hear That Your Surgery Appointment was Not Helpful. I Don't think that some Professionals Even Understand FtoM Transsexuality, and I think that is Entirely Due to the Fact that MtoF Transsexuality seems to Me to be More Common-Place. Warren, is there another Place that You could try going, to see about Surgery ? Warren I Am by the Way Pre-Op MtoF Transsexual, and I Came-Out, just over 4 Month's Ago ! I Am in the UK.. Warren, If You Would Like To Message Me On Here, I Would Always Be Pleased To Hear From You Young Man. Warren, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie.

Hiya Mikah. As Lori Says " You Are Beautiful" ! Do NOT Let Anyone, Tell You Anything Different ! Mikah You Are Gorgeous, and I Am Telling You to stay Positive as well. I have only been "Out" as MtoF Transsexual for 4 Months, but if at the End, I Look half as Lovely as You, I Will be Happy ! Keep Smiling Mikah, Take Care, and Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Karen and Christie. My Neighbour, 2 Door's Away, Pete, Has Got A 1971 Almond Green MG BGT Coupe ( Estate Version ) ! To Hear that B-Series Engine Running, Plus, Seeing ALL That Chrome Shining - Lovely. Pete has Owned this since about 1978, and since He Retired, has Restored The Car, to Showroom Condition ! ( Sadly, before He Completed the Restoration, His Wife Passed-Away ! ) . Can Either of You Two Ladies, Remember What MG Originally Stood For ? As For Triumph Spitfire Car's, again, They are Lovely, and Yes, I have in the Past, Driven Friends' MG Midget's, MG BGT's, Triumph Spitfire's, Triumph Stag's, Original VW Beetle's, Ford Capri's ! ( Showing My Age a Bit ! ). By The Way, MG, Originally Stood For :- "Morris Garages" ! Karen and Christie, Ladies, Please Take Care, Speak Soon. With My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Karen. Your Last Post, Made Me Laugh ! I Am Glad, that You Are Having Fun, You Naughty Girl ! L.O.L. !!!! New Car's Can Be Great Fun ! Karen, Take Care, and Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Christie. I Do Know exactly what You Mean about Insomnia. Mine is More Osteo-Arthritis Related. It Is An absolute sod, when You Need Sleep, and get either very little, or None at All. Christie Love, You Let off Steam any time You Like ! It Is far better, than Bottling It All up, and Making Yourself ILL ! With Transitioning Christie, You Can be really Proud, of Just How Well You have Already Done, and Just How far, You have come already. You are doing well Young Lady ! I hope Your Shoulder is well on the Mend. Stay Positive Christie Love. Things Will get better, I Am sure. Take Care Christie, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Karen. How Is The New Car Going ? Are You Being A Lead-Foot-Lady ? I Hope That You Have Plenty Of Safe Driving Time ! I Am So Glad That You Have Got A Lovely Ladies Car. Karen Enjoy It Love ! Be Careful Out There ! Take Care, With Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Karen. I Am So Pleased for YOU Love. ( I had to Stop Driving, Many Year's Ago, Because Of Health Problems ! ). Now It Gives Me Great Pleasure, Too See Friend's, Like Yourself, Who are Lucky Enough, to Get A Nice Car. Karen, Fair Play Love, and May You have Many Year''s Of Fun and Enjoyment, From Your New Mazda, and Your Toyota Camry. My Best Mate, Bought a Nice Vauxhall Astra SRI Diesel, Earlier on in This Summer, and Kept His Original Vauxhall Astra Diesel, as well ! Karen, Good Luck, Take Care, Enjoy Your New Car - You Deserve A Nice Car Love. With My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xxxx

Hiya Nicky. I Am 53 Now, But, I Had to have All My Teeth Removed, at the Age of 22. I have had Full Dentures, ever since. I had a Previous Dentist, messed up My Teeth. So I had My Own Teeth, for Less than Half My Life. Nicky, Good Luck Love, and I hope sincerely, that You get New Dentures sorted out soon. Please let Us Know. Nicky, You Are So Pretty, and We would Not Know from Your Photograph's, about Your Mouth. Nicky, Take Care, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hello Monica. Somebody's Size, Does Not Matter, Especially When It Comes To Friends. Monica, I Would Be Proud To Be Seen With You, At Any Time. You Are My Friend, And You Also Have A Heart Of Gold. I Take People As Individuals, Regardless Of Their Race; Creed; Colour; Religion; Gender; Sexuality; Or Size ! It Is The Whole Person That Matters, And By That, I Mean What Somebody Is Like Inside, As Well As Outside. Monica, Have A Great Day, Speak Soon. Take Care My Friend, And Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo

Hiya Tara. Wow. What an Extremely Brilliant, and Informative, and Interesting Blog. Tara, I Only Came-Out, as Transsexual, on 30th. April, 2015. So I Am Only at the Start, of My Long Journey. Many, Many, Congratulations, on Your Transition; GRS; and Journey Into Womanhood ! I Hope that All is Going Well with You. Please let Me Know. I Am in the UK, so I Know that things are done, slightly differently here. Tara Take Care, and Very Best Wishes to You. Regards, Stephanie.

Hiya Christie. You Certainly Put A Smile On My Face. Reminder Rabbit. That Sounds Lovely Too. You Really are A Sweetie. A Real Feminine Female. Christie, You will have to get a soft Toy Rabbit Now. Especially as You Have Said it L.O.L. Have A Really Lovely Evening Christie Love. Take Care, With Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo