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Female to Male (FtM) Transsexual Discussion

Topics of interest to those with gender identity dysphoria and/or desire to live and be accepted as men whether pre-op, post-op or non-op, and whether "out" or not. *MUST BE A REGISTERED MEMBER TO OPEN ANY POSTS IN THIS DISCUSSION THREAD*

  1. Started by Lori,

    Post your introduction, let everyone know a little bit about you. And welcome!

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  2. Started by UsernameOptional,

    Many may question their gender growing up, but never really give it too much in-depth thought. Others will go along [happily] being themselves "because." And in a lot of cases, that they are not the gender they know themselves to be isn't usually an issue until - PUBERTY. Puberty comes skulking around, doing its dastardly deeds on our bodies, making changes we knew were inevitable but chose to ignore. In some cases, we deceived ourselves into thinking these changes would never happen to us...because after all, we know best who we really are, in spite of what other people may believe. Puberty in itself wreaks havoc on many teens. They become rebellious. Some dabble i…

  3. Started by UsernameOptional,

    BOOKS & MOVIES BOOKS that may be of interest to transmen. Some book titles are links that take the reader to amazon.com. Some will re-direct the Transgender Book & Print Media forum where synopsis and/or news articles on a book can be found. These books can most likely be purchased at any book store. I have only used amazon.com since many are familiar with it. Readers can view excerpts from, and reviews about, each book. And of course today, I'm sure you all know that many books are available in formats other than hardcover, paperback and audio - like Amazon's "Kindle" and B&N's "Nook." ***The books below are books that TGGuide Members have read …

  4. NOTE: If you run across a bad link...please let me know via PM. Thanks Big Brothers Binder Program: donate your good used binder so guys who can't afford a new one can purchase one here. NOTE: link was down as of 11.30.2012 - site is under construction. Will make this link available when the page is back up. FTM at Underworks variety of binders, vests. Model #997 seems to be the most popular among larger guys. (international shipping available) FtM Essentials has a couple of binders, and other items for [trans]men. This site is owned by Early to Bed. Under Armour performance shirts most likely suitable only for smaller guys (international areas of website…

  5. Started by UsernameOptional,

    Especially for the newer guys...and pretty damn convenient for the members who've been here for a while... if any of you are like me, you don't venture too far back in the thread history. and if you do begin, the amount of reading looks daunting at best, so usually it's the latest few threads that get any attention. so, i went back thru the threads here on the FTM forum and looked for threads that may be of interest: What binder FTM Legal, Medical Issues, A little bit of everything Family (dealing with family - experiences of two different guys) I have some questions... How do you know if you're transgendered? that "bulge"?, Question about packing My boyfrie…

  6. Started by DevinRyan,

    Well my support system and girlfriend has left me she figured it was way to much for her to handle. I'm honestly not that tore up over it I guess that's because I realized it was better to rely in yourself then on others. I am happy I could just use some friends and I'm waiting for right guy or girl to come into my life. So has anyone else been told some horrible things during a breakup. Example: your worthless... Your not a man your just f-----d up in the head...

  7. Started by Hawkman,

    So, you would think after so many years of stabbing myself, this would get easier. I hate the days I have to do the T injections. Seems like it never gets easier. But hey. Who in their right mind enjoys stabbing a needle into themselves? Is there a nurse in the house?

  8. Started by Lori,

    One Year Post Op (FtM Top Surgery) http://youtu.be/db-v8FKOwsw

  9. Started by Brayden,

    FINALLY. After agonizing over it... going to someone who DEFINATELY didn't want to cut it... I did it!! And am happy with the results. Even though my dad had a small freak-out over it. So! Happy Holidays!

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  10. Guest Just_Nick_88
    Started by Guest Just_Nick_88,

    I've now been on Testosterone for two weeks. I feel so much happier now, but I'm impatient. I want my facial hair! When did you guys start noticing face fuzz??? I'm on Androgel, one sqoodgie a day. Halp plz?

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  11. 'Kay's Transition': A transgender journey online HLNtv.com The transgender metamorphosis -- documented meticulously on Facebook and YouTube in a dazzling array of videos and pictures called "Kay's Transition" -- is unique in the respect that it's not a story of intense pain, or weeks of fragile and agonizing...

  12. What Trans Men See That Women Don't Very interesting article for me too as I was AMAB and have transitioned to female. I've often read about how T is so powerful, that it makes trans men (and, presumably cis-men) feel more powerful and aggressive. Well, I never felt that way! Maybe that was because I always was a trans woman irrespective of hormones? Please add your thoughts. I'd love to hear from you and correspond about this fascinating topic! P.S. At the top of the Time webpage is a short video that was very interesting to watch.

  13. Guest Alchemix
    Started by Guest Alchemix,

    I want to get the opinion of other FTM's on this. I'm 29, I've never had sex and never really been comfortable with the idea. When I first discovered I was trans, I thought this must be because of the gender dysphoria - makes perfect sense, right? Except that I'm getting to the point in my transition now (on T 2 years, had chest surgery) where that's not an excuse anymore... All of the FTM's I know are comfortable enough with themselves by this time to have sex, and none of them are virgins. In fact, most of them had sex even pre-transition. So I'm starting to think there might be something else going on. Of course the T makes me aroused a lot, but even under that i…

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  14. Guest Alchemix
    Started by Guest Alchemix,

    I am going for my hysto in two weeks. My hormone doctor told me that I would get even more effect from the testosterone once my ovaries are removed. I should have asked him this at the time but.. The thing is I really don't want more effects from T. I've already been on it for two years, I'm stable and I like the way I am now. So, does anyone know if it's OK to reduce your dose of T after having hysto?

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  15. Video Spotlight: Transgender: Two Years on Testosteron Read the article: http://teneightymagazine.com/2018/05/02/video-spotlight-transgender-two-years-on-testosterone/

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  16. Guest jcarrey1
    Started by Guest jcarrey1,

    I was inspired by the laser hair removal thread Do any of you guys have facial hair? If you do, is it just naturally there or do you shave to make it thicker or what? I was just wondering because I have what could be considered "peach fuzz", so I can say I have a small 'stache.

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  17. Guest Ethan
    Started by Guest Ethan,

    This is a pic one month post op!!

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  18. Guest Charles
    Started by Guest Charles,

    I recently made myself a binder out of wide elastic bands (I think they're 3-4 inches wide) and some long "bra closure" things. It works very well, and manages to squish off about five inches. Laid flat, it measures 21", and compresses 34" to 29". I could breathe fine and take a full deep breath if I wanted to. The problem I found is that after about a while of wearing it - only about three hours (during which I was only driving), it was more than just a little uncomfortable. It took until after going to sleep for the effects to wear off. It was just a general shooting pain in the sternum area and it hurt to laugh even after I had taken it off (about five and a half ho…

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  19. JR Tungol, Posted: 10/02/2012 9:18 am EDT "Kye Allums made news when he came out as the first transgender man to play on a NCAA Division 1 women's basketball team in November 2010. At the time, Allums was a George Washington University junior majoring in interior design. When he disclosed his gender identity to his teammates and coach, he was greeted with open arms." -huffingtonpost.com LGBT History Month Icon Of The Day: Kye Allums (w/Video) Notice, despite the respectful handling of the story in the news video while in the presence of Allums, the reporter ended his news piece at the anchor desk by referring to him as "she." Innocent slip? Or... ?? …

  20. Guest Jackque
    Started by Guest Jackque,

    Salutations! So far I am all round female, but wish to cross that line and live half the time as a male without T or surgery. I've been looking around the usually helpful internet for the past week and finding very little. There's no one I know personally going from female to male (it seems a large quantity of persons are going the other way round) and I'm frustrated. So here is my plea. First off, I'm small. As in short and skinny, and just generally little. There's hardly any muscle in my arms (this I plan to change) And my face isn't exactly girly, but it's not straight out manly either. My hair is blond and shorter with longer bangs at the front. Also, I lik…

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  21. Started by Hawkman,

    So, just wondering if any one else is doing the annual fall ritual of not shaving? Oh what a relief it is!

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  22. Transgender speaker sheds light on gender identity The Doane Line In December 2004, however, Sallans realized his inside didn't match his outside and underwent transgender surgery. Now a full-time professional speaker, mentor, diversity trainer and consultant, Sallans will speak at 11 am in the Whitcomb Lee...

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  23. Started by ChaseStorm,

    So I've decided I'm going to try and talk my parents into helping me figure this all out (even though my mom still wonlt acknowledge it). I want to know how to start this all. ILve come out to my friends, my boyfriend and my friends. I'm going to talk to my parents about gender therapy. Also, if I want to do srs by the time i'm 18 or 19 when would be a good time to start the hormones and real life expierence...btw what is real life expierence?

  24. A wonderful article in this morning's edition of The New York Times: A Transgender Groom Sees Beyond What He Ever Imagined

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  25. Started by Lori,

    Local Transgender Speaks Out NTV Brody Runge, a 24-year-old from Kearney, is a transgender male whose story has been featured on TLC, Discovery and the Oprah Winfrey Network. He even had a brief appearance on "American Idol."Transgender is defined as a person who identifies with a...

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