Dear Rae and Emma,
Am a cisgender (born female) Lesbian, and experienced true love in a relationship lasting ten years with a transwoman.
Have no regrets, except that I did not have a Holy Union with her, and, if I did, I would have been with her 25 years now!
Hope God blesses me with true love again!
Yours truly,
Monica
Hi Rae,
Like you, I'm fairly certain I'd be a lesbian, and proud of it. You're a lucky gal to have found a kindred spirit to join up with!
I also share your wondering about when or if my thinking will change from "I wish I was female" to "I am, and then need to decide if or when I will transition my body to match my gender. Recently I am wondering if the gender in our brain is as binary as our sex (at least for most of us). I guess it isn't because otherwise transgender wouldn't be defined as much as an "umbrella of diversity" to a bar-chart distribution of gender/sex/sex-preference.
Hope you are having a wonderful Saturday evening,
Emma