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Had started coming out a lil bit ago to a few people here a few there then to one job i knew would be supportive. Slowly told some friends and then put it out publicly and just emailed my other job bosses to let them know so that they hopefully heard it from me first. Now that that's done even though I am incredibly nervous about how it will all pan out i am happy that I have nothing to hide now. No one to hide from. Everybody knows ... if they judge me then that's not my problem. I can express how i want or anything ... its like stepping out of a cage into a new world ... as a new person. No more secrets about who i am at home or what i think in my heart. It's incredibly nerve racking to be in this spot where i am ... however its all downhill from here.

Hi Luna, Me too. You're very brave and considerate. Sounds to me like you're doing the perfect thing. More importantly you're accepting that you cannot control any one else. I also hope they express and portray the acceptance and support that you, like any human being, deserves. And these days the chances are greater than ever that that is exactly what you will receive. But if one or more judges you, as you wrote, that's not your problem. Nothing you can do about that. Please do keep us informed! It might also be interesting if you post a copy of the email you sent (deleting personal info of course. Hugs, Emma

I am having chest surgery in four weeks. I am super excited, and a little terrified. Nobody in my family knows. They're not supportive, and I don't want any passive-aggressive comments to bring me down. I'm sad that I feel I can't share this milestone with them.

Hiya Luna. Congratulations Honey. I "Came-Out" as Transsexual, on the Evening of 30th. April, 2015, to My Wife, then during the Daytime of 1st. May, 2015, I started Buying Female Undies and Clothes, and Wearing Them, and Being "Out" in Public, All on the Same Day. I have got Nothing to Hide, or No-One to Hide from. I thought it Best that way. I have been very lucky, that I Have Got an incredible number of People, who are Supporting and Encouraging Me. For Me, Wearing a Dress, or Wearing a Blouse or Top and Skirt, is as Natural as getting up in the Morning's. Luna, I hope that this also helps to give You additional Encouragement and Support. Like Veronica, and Emma, I Am here for You, and Fully Support You. You Are very Brave, and Sensible, letting People have the Information, directly from You. That Is the Very Best Way Honey. Luna, be Very Proud to be on the Outside, Who You have Always been on the Inside. I Personally, have Known since I was 3 Year's of Age, that I Am Female, Trapped, in A Male Body. To Me, " Coming-Out ", was Like having A Massive-Weight, Lifted-Off, Both of My Shoulder's, and I have been far Happier, and So Much more Contented, since " Coming-Out ", than Ever before. When I Look in a mirror, I see a Female, not a "M". Luna, Enjoy Your Femininity Honey. I feel more Feminine, each and every day, and I Am Not even on H.R.T., yet. Luna, Good Luck, Good Health, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

Dear Chrissy, Your job and situation is very hard. I can't imagine how you deal with it. Just put one foot in front of the other, I guess. But also, maintain your own dignity and hold the moral high ground. We can't control the others but we can show them that we are good and decent people. Your dance class sounds terrific in many ways. Good exercise too! I always wanted to dance as a female. I'm envious and admire you. Hugs, Emma

I want to echo veronicabeta's happiness you shared with us. I also really want to validate the sadness you must feel not being comfortable sharing this milestone with family. My heart goes out to you. I am sending compassion to you and wish you the best with the surgery. <3 Luna

Dear Brigsby, I can hardly imagine the feelings you are experiencing and I'm saddened to consider how hard all this must be for you. I'm sure you've thought it all through countless times. I wonder if you've also talked with a therapist who understands you and your situation much better than we ever would? Sometimes it helps to have a trusted 3rd party to brainstorm with. Regardless, it's good to hear from you and I hope we can provide assurance that you're part of a supportive community of brothers and sisters. Hugs, Emma