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Trans Workers UK is a Facebook closed group that advances Trans rights in the UK workplace, I'm a member of the group and regularly advice is sought and given by trans workers on most aspects of being trans at work. However by far the most numerous postings are for trans who are still "in the closet" as far as work is concerned, who are wanting advice from those of us who are fully out in the workplace and in life. Most of these folk have come up against the societally conditioned old barrier, that they'll be ridiculed, or lose their jobs and workmates, this is by far the biggest hurdle that we have to overcome, it's our pre-judice, based on experience in society at large. Most don't realise that it's 2016 & not 1975 anymore, and that attitudes have moved on. Anyway I posted my recent experience to help them overcome their fears; "Last week my employer (a County Council) sent me on a Fire Risk Assessors course, with a view to my carrying out Fire Risk Assessments for the Council's properties. This sort of fits in with my existing role as a H&S Advisor. Anyway I was kinda nervous about attending the course which was held at the Firefighting College in Moreton in the Marsh. I had imagined it as being a very male orientated place, and half expected to be stared at or have the occassional joke or wise crack made at my expense. I couldn't have been more wrong, I was pleasantly surprised to find that doors were held open for me by smiling young firefighters, who were also very polite. I thought wow, if anyone had told me 3 years ago that I'd be wearing knee high boots, treggings, leopard print top, make-up and attending as a woman at the firefighters college, I'd have said "yeah, in your dreams". But there I was doing it. So to all who are contemplating gender change at work, but think it's impossible, think again, I've done it, it's so much easier than you might think. No, as a male I was not a small built effeminate man, I was a 100 kg 5'10" bloke with wide shoulders and narrow waist, and yeah, I thought it impossible to do what I've done, and yet here I am as Eve, my true self. I hope that this helps to inspire others to to do what they really want and not hang about wasteing time, I regret not doing what I did much earlier in my life. Good Luck to you all xx". Cheers, Eve

The most important thing about today is its Nikki's birthday! So obviously an important day to me. I took him to lunch at Pizza Hut and we splurged on brownies. No diets on birthdays! Lol. Right now he's playing the video game I got him Knights of Azure. He was really interested in it for the female/female love story so I knew he had to have it! It's cute so far I'm watching him play chilling out with my IPad. He likes it when I hang out in here with him vs going to the computer room. Work is crappier than ever but the math seems to be five more months maximum. Thank goodness. I'm so lucky Nikki values my welfare more than eating out as much as we do. Time to start cooking again!

I plan to! I confess for lunch for one though I cheated and broiled a ham sandwhich from the leftovers from Nikki's dinner last night. Yum...glazed spiral sliced ham is the only kind of ham I actually like eating.

Happy Birthday to Nikki, and get in that kitchen and rattle them pots and pans...............

Hiya Nikki. Happy Birthday Honey. Have a Great Day. Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx