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Thanks Monica. Thanks for the info. Ace

Hi Lady Congrats on physically having arranged your physical alteration to represent the lady you've always been. Yes, life have steps for everyone to climb, but without these steps we wouldn't be learning. Go out, show the world the lady you are. Can't be held back and ready for action. Remember safety first, and lots of hugs Michele

Heya Jay Hope that your headaches are getting better and it's good having a few guys between the gals. Well, I know I'm not your typical lady's but I see me getting a few petrol heads, and weapons friends. Enjoy the changes. Mentally then physically. Enjoy the colder seasons, as I also love them more. All the best Michele

Hi Veronica! Cottonpocalypse occurred here two, for two days it looked like it was snowing outside. I don't think I'd ever seen that much before, I suspect the wind was an unusual direction and I was in the right place at the right time. It was beautiful, but allergy people in that area of town were so not happy. Cottonwood isn't one of mine, so I was able to stand out in the white fluff and watch it fall. I'm paying the allergy reaper in other ways, the cycling humidity is doing fun things to the mold/fungus counts here and that is getting me. Are you all settled in and unpacked from the move now? How is the new place working out?

If you're wife needs someone to talk to, I'm not in the same boat as she is as at this point Nikki identifies as gender/fluid/crossdressing and transitioning is not currently happening, but I would be happy to listen and offer whatever support I can. I may not know all the feelings she is having right now, but I can still offer hugs and a safe ear if she would find that helpful.

It is now some time since I last wrote and my life has settled into a routine. My wife and I are still a together, I have begun taking hormones and I feel so much better. It has been slow but steady progress in my relationship with my wife whom I love and appreciate greatly. I just pray that it will work out between us and that she is happy. I have said how much I love her and that I understand my decision is my choice and not hers. We discussed my needs and we have made some compromises. These have been that I dress tomboy in the day time and save my dresses for the evening. I still dress in the day but wear girl jeans, androgenous tops, clear nail varnish, mascara, bra etc. It must be very hard for her and we have talked many times. She sometimes feels angry and sometimes loving and supportive. I can only be thankful for her love. I have Ben taking hormones for just over seven weeks now and the biggest change has been to my breasts. My nipples are slightly larger, harder and there are slight swelling in my breasts. I can also feel small lump's behind my nipples and like a flat thickening in my breast which catches behind my arm when I read across my front. My equipment also seems to have shrunk as well as other changes down there but I am not sure about describing these here. I am very happy so far and sincerely hope for positives to continue. Also thank you to my wife and contacts.

So I went out to a party tonight with a friend and made some more ... lately I have been introducing myself as Luna and its been great to hear that name when people introduce me... sure the pronouns thing is taking some work cause unless some one explicitly says she her everyone assumes I am male. It's okay though one thing at a time ... i went out to a party had some wine and got to go shopping picked up a thing or two and just generally had a good night. Hope everyone else is well too. I also uploaded a picture. Seeya all next time

there is something in a name... something powerful in its sound and relation to identity, so it must feel so good, validating, and accepting to hear others call you luna, which is much more your true name than anyone else gave or could give you.

Good days are things we can hold onto and hug, I hope you collect them in a great big pile the wrap yourself in!

Hi Luna, Good to hear you had a nice time. It feels good to receive affirmations from friends and new friends, doesn't it? I looked for your new photo but didn't find it. Did you forget to do it? Anyway I'm happy for you. Have a nice weekend! Hugs, Emma

Had started coming out a lil bit ago to a few people here a few there then to one job i knew would be supportive. Slowly told some friends and then put it out publicly and just emailed my other job bosses to let them know so that they hopefully heard it from me first. Now that that's done even though I am incredibly nervous about how it will all pan out i am happy that I have nothing to hide now. No one to hide from. Everybody knows ... if they judge me then that's not my problem. I can express how i want or anything ... its like stepping out of a cage into a new world ... as a new person. No more secrets about who i am at home or what i think in my heart. It's incredibly nerve racking to be in this spot where i am ... however its all downhill from here.

I wish you the best experiences of life and joy and kindness possible! And for the less best, remind them that freedom really means that, and we all have the freedom to be whatever makes us happy and feeling like ourselves, not just the freedom to conform to everyone else! I find that tactic works quite often.

indeed. <3

luna, very brave and wonderful... must be such an incredible time in your life, even if some of that inevitable and all too normal anxst mixed in with the immense excitement, happiness, relief, and everything else in the swirl of setting yourself free. - bluemoon

Hiya Luna. Congratulations Honey. I "Came-Out" as Transsexual, on the Evening of 30th. April, 2015, to My Wife, then during the Daytime of 1st. May, 2015, I started Buying Female Undies and Clothes, and Wearing Them, and Being "Out" in Public, All on the Same Day. I have got Nothing to Hide, or No-One to Hide from. I thought it Best that way. I have been very lucky, that I Have Got an incredible number of People, who are Supporting and Encouraging Me. For Me, Wearing a Dress, or Wearing a Blouse or Top and Skirt, is as Natural as getting up in the Morning's. Luna, I hope that this also helps to give You additional Encouragement and Support. Like Veronica, and Emma, I Am here for You, and Fully Support You. You Are very Brave, and Sensible, letting People have the Information, directly from You. That Is the Very Best Way Honey. Luna, be Very Proud to be on the Outside, Who You have Always been on the Inside. I Personally, have Known since I was 3 Year's of Age, that I Am Female, Trapped, in A Male Body. To Me, " Coming-Out ", was Like having A Massive-Weight, Lifted-Off, Both of My Shoulder's, and I have been far Happier, and So Much more Contented, since " Coming-Out ", than Ever before. When I Look in a mirror, I see a Female, not a "M". Luna, Enjoy Your Femininity Honey. I feel more Feminine, each and every day, and I Am Not even on H.R.T., yet. Luna, Good Luck, Good Health, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

Hi Luna, Me too. You're very brave and considerate. Sounds to me like you're doing the perfect thing. More importantly you're accepting that you cannot control any one else. I also hope they express and portray the acceptance and support that you, like any human being, deserves. And these days the chances are greater than ever that that is exactly what you will receive. But if one or more judges you, as you wrote, that's not your problem. Nothing you can do about that. Please do keep us informed! It might also be interesting if you post a copy of the email you sent (deleting personal info of course. Hugs, Emma