Hi there Ace Welcome here. Sometimes it seems like we bite, but actually not so much. The ladies are knowledgeable in fields that you wouldn't expect. Might not know the first thing about how a man acts or reacts to the world, but if I can give you the confidence I show I work, then you'll be in the world cup. Not cocky confidence, just confidence to know what you want and need to get to your end result. But sometimes I realize that the guys around me needs to feel in control, but some of them actually do scare me and in those instances I do show a lack of confidence for them to feel good about themselves. But step on too many toes and up goes confidence, We love to laugh, but some days you will see that even if you have all the answers, crying is the only option to continue. Find the friends in all arenas and learn to vent. You are male after all, so gym and weight training might work for you. Cheers, will check out some of your pictures now. Michele