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General Transgender Discussion

General topics that apply to pre-op, post-op, non-op, intersex, male, female, androgynous, straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, metrosexual, asexual, significant others, questioning, curious, Pre-HRT and those who self identify as transgender with or without medical intervention. *MUST BE A REGISTERED MEMBER TO OPEN ANY POSTS IN THIS DISCUSSION THREAD*

  1. Filipino Transgender singer wows with her ability to sing in both male and female keys on 'I Can See Your Voice 5' ​​https://www.allkpop.com/article/2018/01/filipino-transgender-singer-wows-with-her-ability-to-sing-in-both-male-and-female-keys-on-i-can-see-your-voice-5 ​​ Video: https://youtu.be/u2RyLhjKBBQ ​

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  2. Started by Lori,

    Transgender Independence: A Daughter’s Journey and Her Father’s Love https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/transgender-independence-a-daughters-journey-and_us_5a456ccae4b0df0de8b0694d

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  3. Started by Lori,

    Walking While Trans: An immersive look into the transgender experience. ​​ https://mic.com/articles/186998/walking-while-trans#.01WYLiU6F

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  4. Started by olcharlie,

    Wikipedia remembered and reminded for which I am grateful. Let us never forget. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Leelah_Alcorn

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  5. Wishing everyone a Merry Christmas -- or joy and love celebrating whatever you observe. "How to survive Christmas with your transphobic relatives" http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2017/12/24/how-to-survive-christmas-with-your-transphobic-relatives/

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  6. Would like to hear the latest advise and results on the use of herbal supplements to develop female secondary traits, such as breast development. I have just started a couple of products and will be recording my results. I would like to hear from anyone who has already tried herbs and what were their findings. Dawn

  7. Started by Lori,

    TGGuide.com would like to thank all ​U.S. veterans and their families for sacrifices in defense of our nation. ​We have prepared a Veterans Day public service announcement to recognize transgender veterans. View the video on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/TransgenderGuide/videos/1739006732776042/ Please like and follow our page, like and comment on the video and share!

  8. Started by Lori,

    I grew up in the 60s and 70s when a polite society didn't talk about transgender topics. I learned the hard way that you just didn't even mention such things in my family. I got past all that and began exploring my gender identity in the 80s and fully transitioned in the early 90s. It still wasn't a very accommodating society but I was lucky enough to be able to live in stealth mode. Transgender people who came before us had a very difficult path for sure. But I have noticed over the past 30 years that society is ever-so-slowly evolving regarding understanding and acceptance of transgender people. Every now and then I see a development and I think, perhaps naively, that …

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  9. The National Center for Transgender Equality has released results from an extensive 2015 survey about transgender life in the United States. This report presents the findings of the 2015 U.S. Transgender Survey (USTS), a study conducted by the National Center for Transgender Equality (NCTE). With 27,715 respondents, it is the largestever survey examining the lives of transgender people in the United States. The USTS provides a detailed portrait of the experiences of transgender people across many areas, including health, family life, employment, and interactions with the criminal justice system. See the full report at http://www.transequality.org/sites/default/files/docs…

  10. Started by Lori,

    I've been working to expand the reach of TGGuide in social media. We now have a fairly robust Facebook group with over 2700 followers. Please like our page and join in the discussion at https://www.facebook.com/TransgenderGuide/ We recently created a new promotional video for TGGuide. Check it out on Facebook! ​

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  11. Started by KarenPayne,

    Microsoft has called on me once more in regards to diversity and inclusion in the workplace for transgender people. I have roughly a week or so to write an article which will be presented on the Official Microsoft site. What I'm looking for are personal challenges/experiences that you personally went through good or bad. At this point I have my own information and a handful of locals but thought it prudent to get others from different countries/states.

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  12. Started by olcharlie,

    This seems to be percolating through news feeds lately. It’s dated 10/3/17 and the comments suggest something about tech times target audience. http://www.techtimes.com/articles/213993/20171003/sex-change-regret-growing-number-of-transgenders-wants-gender-reversal-surgery.htm And here is an older article updated in 2016 counters the impression the tech times article suggests. It is less inflammatory, as well as better researched and considered. https://www.huffingtonpost.com/brynn-tannehill/myths-about-transition-regrets_b_6160626.html I’m offering these as a heads up to expect some discussion on the subject. And I think anyone who's tripped over the first article sho…

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  13. Started by UsernameOptional,

    Kasandra Brabaw | Aug 10, 2017 1:45 PM "The question was asked Wednesday, and already has more than 5,000 comments at the time of writing. The replies have sparked discussion among both the transgender and cisgender community, and opened eyes to how important it is for kids to have the language and space to explore their gender identity that many of these people weren't afforded." -- refinery29.com 7 People Talk About The First Time They Knew They're Transgender Some content/language may not be suitable for all readers.

  14. By Fiona Macdonald 20 July 2017“I feel like a mermaid. My body tells me that I am a man but my soul tells me that I am a woman. I am like a flower, a flower that is made of paper. I shall always be loved from a distance, never to be touched and no smell to fall in love with.” Heena, 51, is a hijra: a term, according to Bangladeshi photographer Shahria Sharmin, that has “no exact match in the modern western taxonomy of gender”. More here: http://www.bbc.com/culture/story/20170720-the-semi-sacred-third-gender-of-south-asia

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  15. Started by stephani,

    I recently had a topic up and the mere thought of or view of the title staid discussion with the greater majority that viewed it, I understand that it is uncomfortable for most to speak openly no matter what the topic, that being said I knew what, where, and the general out come of the topic, it was apparent that it truelly had little to do with the subject, but more to the mere combination of words that struck a cord and either confirmed with the reader or they felt personal attack. With this in hand I thought long and hard about the thread, do I leave it up or do I take it down, the later was the case, I did so not because of any one thing but I felt the discussion was …

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  16. Started by KarenPayne,

    Had my annual physical today, two years since HRT, 1 1/2 years since GRS, it appears as Marci Bowers indicated my prostate would be gone in a short time and it's completely gone as of today. Nice to know a doctor will not have to perform that test on me again.

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  17. Started by amylynn6,

    It was 2 years ago I made the biggest decision in my life,live and dress as female fulltime.Since the age of 6,I always felt feminine mostly.I was adopted and my mom that adopted me watched me go through her shoe and hosiery.There were times she did put make up on me.It was the crossdressing at first.Then 2 years ago,things did change and my wife noticed it at first.Finally we did sit down and talk telling her I wanted to live and dress as female fulltime.Was amazed she decided to stay married to me,said she always liked the femme side of me more and always wanted a femme husband.Our relationship is a lot better since this happened.We have an 18 year old daughter together…

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  18. This link contains TRIGGERS almost guaranteed to provoke controversy ! https://www.facebook.com/Cosmopolitan/videos/10155556622072708/ https://www.facebook.com/Cosmopolitan/videos/10155556622072708/

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  19. My daughter Nikki has been great about my new life as female.She is 18 years old and says I am her normal dad still.It was 2 years ago that I told her that I will be dressing fulltime as female feeling that I have been feminine all my life.Was 16 at the time and she told me that she will always love me as her dad.The first time she saw me dressed fulltime as female for the first time.Did hug and said I love you still right away to me.Told me I looked beautiful as well.She sees I am very happy and no regrets doing this.Always thinks about me very well,she did have a boyfriend that would treat me like crap.Nikki is like me,said treat me with respect,said it will be over if …

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  20. Started by KarenPayne,

    While out with a transgender friend accompanied a cisgender female, transgender admirer who I must say is gorgeous we started talking about being misgendered. My friend mentioned there were a few times she was misgendered which I would only think she would because of her body structure, something you really can hide if you have decent muscles or inherently masculine bone structure. I reminded my friend of me in regards to being misgendered and her cisgender friend spoke up and said, I could never imagine you being misgendered which is always good to hear. I think part of this is not only facial features and voice which are the two things that are giveaways (and eyebrows a…

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  21. http://transcendmovement.com/how-to-argue-with-conservatives-on-transgender-issues-the-skywalker-ar

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  22. http://www.transgenderhub.com/transgender-hormone-replacement-therapy-hrt-guide-101-oestrogen-testosterone/

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  23. Started by Emma,

    Ever since I came across Brynn Tannehill's "I Am Real" speech to the 2014 TransPride Pittsburgh National Conference I've been a huge supporter of her and greatly appreciate her articles. Here's a new one recently published on Huff Post: Seven Facts About Gender You Should Know

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  24. Started by bluemoon,

    I haven't had a chance to be on here for awhile, but wanted to share this great little story. One of the guys I play sports with is infamous for being overly aggressive, loud, crude, argumentative, and generally overly macho. All this past week, though, he was excited about playing dress up, wearing a dress and doing everything possible to look female. He sent everyone photos and loved the attention. His whole persona also changed and, though still a male, he started to fancy himself a female. Everyone totally accepted. it. Well, actually nobody really cared that much, except me.

  25. Samantha Allen | 05.19.17 5:35 PM ET "“This pervasive ideology says that trans women are shameful, that trans women are not worthy of being seen and that trans women must remain a secret— invisible and disposable,” the Redefining Realness author wrote. “If a man dares to be seen with a trans woman, he will likely lose social capital so he must adamantly deny, vehemently demean, trash and/or exterminate the woman in question.”" -- thedailybeast.com Why A Lot of Americans Don't Want To Befriend a Transgender Person

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