Yes, Dee, I truly understand the need to be guarded as we grow our transition. Very important, but it is also very liberating when we are able to situate ourselves past that need for confidentiality and hiding, Go slow and thoughtfully, there are many times I've said Oh gosh what am I doing? But now far more often I say why didn't I address this far earlier in my Life?? You'll see, and have fun and appreciate learning more about yourself along the way,😎 .