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  2. Jessicatoyou

    Won't Be Erased

    Hey, don't speak too badly about J Edgar, please... she was actually my first role model, hope, or acknowledgement that my wish to transition would someday become a reality, decades before Caitlin Jenner! Poor girl, never got to live her true self out.😪. And possibly, probably, Trump has a transgender or more in his family tree, too! I don't think you need worry about the documents stored on you anymore, LOL☺️
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  4. UsernameOptional

    Hair Removal

    Since this thread has been revived, but the OP has never returned, the following info (in addition to what has already been offered) may be helpful to those who live in or near, or willing to travel to, the Hallandale Beach, FL area - Laser by Michelle List of Services YouTube Testimonials
  5. Jessicatoyou

    Baby Steps

    I know, I've had forty or fifty years to figure my style. But I'm way behind you in the one thing that counts! Maybe we'll catch up with each other at the same time. I never had as much before, that I purged, but one thing I'm sure of now is that these are keepers and the rest will follow🏆
  6. Christy

    Baby Steps

    Wow that’s pretty extensive. I am way behind you. It was mentioned to me that I should wait and by slowly. Otherwise I’ll be buying stuff and realizing later it’s not my style. I’m not really into dresses for now but who knows what I’ll like down the road.
  7. Christy

    Off to bean town

    Well I hope it snows for the kids. I would like it too 😁
  8. Jessicatoyou

    Off to bean town

    Got 5 inches of snow here yesterday; I don't know what's in Beantown. Let me know
  9. Christy

    Off to bean town

    This might be the first time I freeze my tits off. What?!?!
  10. Jessicatoyou

    Off to bean town

    Go girl!🤸‍♀️
  11. Jessicatoyou

    Baby Steps

    Okay, jeans?...Love the sissyboys, but don't care for skinny jeans, my legs and thighs lost too much fat with my weight lose, and they really look skinny in skinny jeans. Still need butt and hip pads, can't wait till I won't! Have several jeans, very comfortable in warmer weather, and just knocking around. Have had too keep downsizing though; I won't buy more until I round out my body😉. Like to wear them with cotton camis, or sweaters or loose polos, and flats, sandals, or sneakers. Have several dress slacks, too, fit and look beautiful and go really well with Chelsea and Pintuck blouses, have about 10 of those, different styles and colors. Also skirts to the knee or an inch above or below. Mostly pencil skirts and some flare skirts. even a leather pencil skirt!😉 Don't have too many clothes with patterns, just some, but mostly like solid colors. Have three dress suits, like you would wear to a board meeting, which I just LOVE!❤️❣️. One red, one black, one grey.(and shoes to match)😍 As far as dresses, mostly the type you would wear to work in an office, but have a nice selection and some knock around day dresses. A couple of flimsy and frilly ones which I like, but would never ever wear out! Even have my gown for The First Event gala coming up!💜.Now, that is stunning!!!! Only tried it on once about 6 weeks ago when I first got it and scared the heck out of me...almost couldn't take it off. You'll have to go First Event to see it😍 Very simple, but elegant. My boy clothes???? 3 pairs of pants, identical. 5 open collar pullover shirts, identical, white soxs, identical, haha😆
  12. Christy

    Off to bean town

    Well I’m off to bean town and this will be great. We are doing a family bonding trip before thanksgiving and have a lot of fun things planned. I will also be seeing my sister, who I haven’t seen since last year. I told her that I was transgender on coming out day. I am so excited to see her. I will also be seeing my brother, sister in-law, nephew and an aunt. I may come out to my brother but I’ll have to gauge that at the moment. I personally would just tell everyone but I have to respect my wife. I can’t wait to wear some winter clothes too. I’m going to girl it up just a bit around my kids to see how they react. I’m trying to slowly get them used to seeing a more feminine side of me. I bought some cute turtleneck sweaters and some leggings. I should go and buy some girl cross boots 🥾 but we will see. I am also going to bring an earring for my one pierced ear from years ago. I will also wear a bit of eyeliner. I know it sounds silly but I am so excited to go. I feel so alive! I can’t even remember the last time I was so excited to go somewhere without some sort of anxiety. Wow what a beautiful feeling. 😍
  13. Christy

    Baby Steps

    That is my look. MichelleLea, Emma, Jessica what are your styles?😘
  14. Jessicatoyou

    Baby Steps

    Better hurry, only two left!
  15. Christy

    Baby Steps

    Hey there is even a company called.... https://www.sissyboyjeans.com/76431/croft.aspx#.W_AI6hZOmEc I love this style but I need to shape up the body a bit more. Lol
  16. Christy

    Baby Steps

    The word “sissy” did trigger me as well. Just a bit, for a second. Then I realized why. When I was little some of the boys would call me that when they wanted to dominate me. (First grade ish) I would retaliate with a lunchbox to the head or with whatever I had in my hands at the time. So when I heard that word I had a tiny flashback. Thank you for bringing it up because now I let it go. 😘 interesting. I really don’t here that word anymore. It also brought back a lot of really great memories after I dove deeper into that time in my life. There were more positive memories then negative ones, like learning to sing and play the drums! 😊 I ran around feeling very girly back then, it was fun. I was free. I even got to wear a pink dress for a skit one time in school! I had totally forgot about that! Astonishing. It is so clear in my mind right now. Thanks MichelleLea 😘
  17. MichelleLea

    Ain't gonna purge NO MORE, NO MORE!

    It sounds like most of us have gone through purge cycles. I know I have and lost so many wonderful things that can never be replaced. I agree. NO More!
  18. MichelleLea

    Baby Steps

    Thanks for your comments. I will keep pushing boundaries now. It feels right.
  19. Christy

    Baby Steps

    Wow that’s great! I am happy for you. 😀 great advice Emma 😘
  20. Emma

    Baby Steps

    Congratulations are in order. I know well the feelings you’re expressing, of secretly cross dressing. I bristle a bit at your calling yourself a sissy. That’s such a slur, that is demeaning and doesn’t apply to you. Good on you for coming out to your PACE friends. It feels good to be authentic, doesn’t it? Slow steps, no rush. But continue to push against your boundaries. Regardless of where you need to be (e.g., transitioning) we owe it to ourselves to come into our own and be ourselves. We only have this one life to live.
  21. MichelleLea

    Baby Steps

    It has been a while since I have been here, so I need to bring this blog up-to-date. I think I was in the process of selling my house when I last wrote. We went to closing on October 2, so that is a done deal. In the meanwhile, I bought an older mobile home in a 55+ senior park and am completing my second month here. At this writing, all is going well, and I am happy with my decisions. The park is safe and quiet. Well, I am somewhat near the railroad tracks, but I have gotten used to the trains. The bed does rumble a little when the trains go by, but it's like having a vibrating bed, and I have gotten used to it. The neighbours are nice, and pretty much keep to themselves which I appreciate being somewhat of a recluse. I actually feel more comfortable wearing more feminine clothing in my early morning outings with my puppies. I do run into an occasional fellow dog walker, but it's dark and early and nobody seems to mind at that hour. So, this brings me to my news for the day. As I may have mentioned, I have been a secret cross-dresser, transgender sissy for all my life. During this past year since my wife died, I have been able to express myself more fully at home which has been good, but I still present male to the outside world. That will probably be the case for the foreseeable future as I would have a hard time at t his point working as a female. I'm just not ready. But, I do have some female friends from my previous work at PACE Center for Girls. I had lunch with two of them last year, and today, we met again for lunch. I made up my mind, that I would let them know that I had a feminine side and was transgender. I was somewhat nervous and apprehensive about doing it, but I needed to be open and honest with them about my true self. As it turned out, they were very accepting and sympathetic, and I felt so relieved to finally open up to the outside world. We hope to meet again soon as we all had a good time. Next time, I will officially be one of the "girls." Maybe even do a little dressing. They already want to call me Michelle. What fun!
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  23. EShaver

    Won't Be Erased

    I know a good many of us will revert to our "Underground ways of the late 1960's if the Ftrump erasure really does come to pass . I know the documents stored on me during J Edgar's tenure are still around . Guess what , I'm still around and NO ONE will take me out willingly .....
  24. Christy

    Am I a Woman?

    Thanks Emma I love that letter. Aiming at being the best me is the key. I have a lot of compassion for those struggling, no suffering and I try to help them when I can. I will never give up.
  25. Christy

    Won't Be Erased

    So I spoke with the president this morning regarding 11/20. I think you will be surprised at what they are going to be doing in the next year. Don’t let the fear take hold of you. No one will be erased. They are working on a solid legally founded solution for us rather then an executive order which is easily changed. They are NOT trying to erase anyone but there needs to be a balance. The military is far more complex than you may think. keep the faith as I do. I am working on it. I truly mean this.
  26. Steph53

    Won't Be Erased

    Hello Michael. How are You ? Okay Honey, I Hope ! Michael, We are as Valid as ANY Other Member's of Society. Why Trump wants Our Very Existence denied, I do Not Know ! However, We Won't Be Erased. Trump is nothing but a Horrible Dictator. Michael, Take Care Honey, And My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. ( Steph 53.) xx
  27. UsernameOptional

    Won't Be Erased

    Jessie Earl | November 14 2018 5:04 AM EST "Over 200 members of the transgender community submitted videos for our "We Won't Be Erased" video in order to recognize and honor Transgender Awareness Week. It's been a difficult time, with the recent report that the Trump administration is trying to define transgender people out of existence; news that follows last year's transgender military ban and the repeal of Obama-era guidance to protect trans students in schools. Yet the community has continually shown resilience..." -- advocate.com 200 Transgender People Share Why They Won't Be Erased
  28. Jessicatoyou

    Am I a Woman?

    Please keep the faith, in yourself, and I know you'll work through it.
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