stephani

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About stephani

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  • Birthday 12/18/1971

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  • Gender Female
  • Location Phoenix Arizona
  • Interests I Have to say I am flattered BY your glances But I hold nothing within other than a Little Knowledge , if this is what you seek then by all means , lets walk for a whille .

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  1. stephani added a blog entry in stephani's Blog   

    Life is never what you think
    So, you see after Forever I am adding a new blob giggles.
    Yeah a big pile of blob, why eh I suppose because here is a place just to dribble out some thoughts without disturbing the flow of a thread, or a means to vent without disturbing the flow of the forum.
    I know that not everyone appreciates my opinions or views on life, wether or not if it has anything to do with transition or not, not everyone will, I respect that, I do.
    That being said, some times you just want to reach thru the screen and grab the other person and give em a bit of a shaking lol.
    Ahhhh you twat giggle
    Smile everyday even when some self absorbed thumb sucking twat struggles through life and wishes to drag you along for the shitty ride. Oops PG nah you know better coming here, yup you do don't you, that's why you read my posts because in the end of it all I will never lie to you why should I I don't expect you to lie to me, if you think I am a blow hard big mouthed deisel dyke who prattles on tell me that because I will tell you your a twat. Smiles and laughs.
    Thanks Mom and Aunts for my understanding no one wants needs or deserves to be Molly coddled. 
     
    You know it's been a hell of a trip but in general transition is fine, yeah I wish I had done a few things differently but for the most part, it's exactly what I knew it would be, life in a different pair of pants.
    Just go live your lives free from the delusion transition will change everything, because it won't, you will change what you see needs to be changed, you will feel it's over when you feel it, no one can control you unless you allow them to. Grow up be an adult and live the last bit of this life you have to it's fullest.
    And yeah life can beat the hell out of you just drag your butt up and say is that the best you can do well here you go I can take it.
     
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  2. stephani added a comment on a blog entry: Is There A Place For Short-Term Relationships?   

    Oh hun, it's becoming ever evident to me that relationships are over rated , for 23 years now I have been a truck driving diesel dyke and at this point of my like I can say proud to be, I have always felt I needed to have " that someone waiting at home " and so I did just that convenient relationships ones that understand I come home seldom and am in no way interested in going out after getting home. Is this fare no I suppose not yet I pay all the bills, do all the household work when I get home and don't want, need sexual interactions, I have gone without for so long I am no longer interested.
    Is it a bad thing this being alone, set in our ways, I think He'll No, your lists of why you live alone gave me a bit of a chuckle because a lot of the list was my thoughts for me. Connection is a wonderful thing but so is a bit of are you kidding me what the hell adds a lot to ones life, I can get that from co workers, or friends and some times from my beagle Skipper trust me he is a joy, a pain, a wonderful addition, no not everyone wants or needs a pet/fur baby but for some of us just what we need.
    I am glad to know a bit more about you I love having you just a tap on the screen away, your opinions matter and the site Bennifits from your being here.
    Hugs hun
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  3. stephani added a post in a topic: Hello....   

    As said no, they are there as a merely interactery part of social media, indicates a notice to or indication of understanding to nothing more, just ignore them if they are of concern to you. They basically are just hey I read that or I agree with that or yeah I suppose that's one way to look at things sort of interaction others can have without adding dialogue to the stream.
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  4. stephani added a post in a topic: NYT: My Gay Agenda   

    No matter who or what one represents your agenda will always enter into whatever you are interacting in, it's inherant . My inherant beliefs as a lesbian holds it's own agenda's for my purposes so do everyone else's no matter how much we try to remain "non bias" never happens, we all slip. 
    So the term Gay Agenda has always makes me cringe so does anything agenda, lbgtqasn get my point ever point on that star has it's own agenda's, even if you try to separate them the muddle into the discussion or debate how ever one might deem the situation, see agenda right there is it a discussion or debate. Smiles
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  5. stephani added a post in a topic: Shoes   

    Yeah, I have purchased a number of shoes there.
    Now, not so much.
    No pumps 
    Flats yup.
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  6. stephani added a post in a topic: Woman Harassed in Bathroom   

    Three broke phones, two broke computer's and couldn't remember my log in stuff. Finally got to the remember password email to fix. All better now, I could read the new postings all this time just couldn't reply.
    Hugs
    Steph
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  7. stephani added a post in a topic: Welcome EmmaSweet - Our Newest Moderator   

    Another great addition .
    Congratulations.
    Hugs
    Steph
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  8. stephani added a post in a topic: Woman Harassed in Bathroom   

    The instances that happen only shadow the ones that don't get light shed upon them, the one's where the individuals are beaten, arrested, have been forced by the judiciary system to be placed on Predatory watch, to live the rest of their lives as criminals, this all because of High profile s hats who deem them selves the voice of all those who are Trans whatever. 
    I have, dealt with this in the mid west, the bible belt thumpers up in arms claiming untruths and being believed over the real truth. I cansay my situation worked its self out only because I kept my head and had my documents supporting me, no so for many.
    Just be careful out there, carry anything that supports you, and keep your head about you, you never know who is filming your reaction.
    Hugs
    Steph
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  9. stephani added a post in a topic: Restoration planned for home of female Civil War soldier   

    All throughout history it has been discovered that both mtf and ftm persons have served in their prospective roles and secretive gender roles. Many times in valor. Often times descrased after being found out. 
    Just wish history will show, no matter what those who sacrificed in honor of their countries their countries could do the same for them.
    Steph
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  10. stephani added a post in a topic: Questions From Spouses/Significant Others Of A Person Who Identifies As A Transgender Person Or Is A Transitioning Transsexual   

    Like any other, including the initial coming out questions are not easy, not to answer s not to know but only the thought of how best to answer this is what comes to mind. No one knows how far or short their journey will lead them, what we do know is that it must start, and by including the SO in this journey is one of the greatest questions we all ask our selves, as the SO its how you react to and follow through on your answers that dictate alot of how we continue down the many paths that are ahead of us.

    Questions like, will we remain together are as much on our minds as it is on yours. So will you stay if..... is the next question followed by the same only adding an alternative notation after the IF, your not alone we to struggle we these same million dollar questions. It's the answers we don't always have, why, well because we have yet to journey to that point and found out what the reaction is, was, or ended up being.

    Many jump deap into the journey and find out it's far more then they dreamed or imagined the new life was going to be, and many pull back slow down and reassess the parameters of their jouney, it's in no way a reflection of you nor them it's what humans do we adjust,compromise,reassess,redefine who, what, where, when the rest of our journey is leading.

    With love and respect being needed on both sides of the relationship. Remember not only is your life in the balance but so are those SO's that stick it out with you.

    Hugs
    All the best
    Stephani
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  11. stephani added a post in a topic: TG m2f partners support on here is there one?   

    I believe You Are correct, now in the end J is a true Transsexual now isn't she. after all the discovery between the two of you are through the toughest of the waters its never smooth sailing is it. Though many SO's cant stand the troubled waters that lye ahead of them I am so happy to hear those that decide to ride it out with their SO, we all need some one to walk along in this life and when so many are starting down this journey the loss of That one special person makes the journey a little more tolerable, this is true for both sides but is seldom seen at that moment when the SO comes out. I am Happy you are here and I meant no disrespect or did I aim to derail the topic , I just like to add to any discussion, many times my views are a bit harsh in some opinions and right on by others, I just try to inject a side that many hesitate to look.
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  12. stephani added a post in a topic: Is There a Link Between Autism and Gender Dysphoria?   

    Gennee, I have taken great notice in the research and the statistics of the " So Called Necessary Vaccinations of our population " and one thing keeps popping out that is disturbing to me, they are said to help reduce and aid in the fight against outbreaks and diseases but when it come rite down to it they are only creating worse problems within the population, me myself if have been given the choice would have never opted to receive any vaccination what happens when man messes with mother nature yeah she fights back and with a vengeance, we are poisoning our children and our selves with these things and no one even thinks twice about the reverberations from the environment that we live in, the world has a balance and we try to interrupt its natural vibration it tips, and generally not for the better. Stop Killing us with your cures and start letting our own bodies once again learn how to fight off any lurking virus or what have you call it. that is what we were designed to do, not just take a shot and move forward it all ends badly trust me. the vaccine that caused Aids/HIV was suppose to be the cure for the common cold and look what that got us. just my thoughts, If there is a tie betwixt the two it would not surprise me one bit.
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  13. stephani added a post in a topic: One thing therapists don't teach   

    Stephaniie, Hawkman does not take Hormones if memory serves me, so The notion of Hormones causing euphoric feelings for him doesn't play into the statement, he has gone through a lot in the last what five or so years and if my memory isn't as far gone as I think for a great many more prior to that. So when he has a great or good day, it is because he deserves it on a daily basis. As do we all, So when they come accept them embrace them and take joy in them, because as stated the feeling of sadness and annex will soon be back within our minds soon enough, take heart knowing your special in your own ways and when some one stands up and offers you a kind word in acknowledgement accept it graciously and with dignity and offer one in return because that person deserves one as much as you do. Though it is not easy to take or understand why your receiving such praises know that they thought well enough of you to say what you may seldom hear.
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  14. stephani added a post in a topic: Bible study   

    What in the hell is wrong with this thing, awe maybe I can find the answer in your link... giggles not likely I don't think god considered computer issues when he told his story.
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  15. stephani added a post in a topic: Bible study   

    interesting, I am sure this will help some with the questions they have in their lives.
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