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This has become my go-to place for help and advice to navigate through this thing called life--I suppose that was what this site was designed to do for folk such as we are. I did look at one mobile home park today while out working. It was pretty nice actually--well kept and quiet and orderly. The sales lady was also very nice. No rentals at this point and only one for sale--a 3/2 1040 sq ft home for 64,900. It looked like what would work for me and my two toy poodles. Since I'm still pretty discreet in my dressing, it could work for the time being while I continue to work locally. Eventually, it would be great to be in a more friendly LGBT community, so the Tampa Bay area is not out of the question. I'm just getting started, so we'll see how she goes. BTW, I opened another account today, and it looks like this one will fly. It was a confidence booster and made me feel good that I haven't lost my touch. Later. Hugs.

I was thinking about you overnight (which happens when I write just before going to sleep!) and hope this helps. You should be congratulated more for your ability to make appointments. People are busy and don’t want meetings just because you’re nice. I conclude that you must therefore be tickling their curiosity enough to set up the meeting. But then, something goes haywire. Maybe they have objections you can’t address. Too expensive? Not really needed? It’s lucky that you have a long experience because I wonder if you could go through your past meetings and in one or two words classify what went wrong with each one: why didn’t they buy. Then, tally these up to determine the frequency of each. Then, take a look and see if you can create a better response to each one. Be creative! Be radical! It doesn’t hurt since now, when you hit one of these objections you almost certainly lose the deal. Turn it into a game and see if you can get some more runs on the board!

Yes, definitely renting.

Congrats on opening another account! And also for recognizing your not focusing enough on winning biz at the ones you made appointments with. Don’t succumb to just being busy. Focus, focus, focus, on winning biz. Anything else is, sorry to say, spinning your wheels and wasting energy and time and money. Why money? Because the time spent on the accounts that don’t pay off is time you can use on opening up others. Please also take Monica’s advice on Florida. And only rent a mobile home! $70K is a lot of money, especially for a used mobile home. Maybe you can find something on Craig’s List?

Dear MichelleLea, Agree with Emma's advice, but I suggest renting for two years, as it takes about two years to get used to the heat and humidity of Florida (nine months a year), and it's distinct (transitory) culture. May I recommend exploring the Tampa Bay (Clearwater, St. Petersburg and Tampa) area, as they have many excellent transgender support groups, associated with the King of Peace MCC Church in St. Petersburg, Florida. Please visit their T/LGB Center, located in Gulfport, just south of St. Petersburg, and they will give you excellent information on the above. Please consider looking for a T/LGB community. Have known some manufactured home (mobile home) communities to have very cruel residents, especially (God forgive me, especially when I am one, myself), when they are senior citizens. Also, I have found some manufactured home communities to be drug-ridden. Sadly, Florida has a big drug problem. Google "Tampa Bay Hotline," and e-mail them, and, if possible, call them, and ask for recommendations. MichelleLea, there are good people everywhere, you just have to look for them. There are some TGGuide members who hail from Florida, and ask them for their advice, and what their likes and dislikes (pros and cons) about living in Florida. Your friend, Monica

Thanks as always for your comments. I am a hotshot at making appointments, but like we've discussed a while back, it's the quality of the appointments that make a difference. I am spending more time up front to make sure we have some quality. It's been hard to get the employees to buy in when they have to pay for it themselves. My coordinator and I are working to make sure I have better enrollment conditions and more chance to actually sell policies. I've done it before; I can do it again. In the meanwhile, I have been gradually assuming the role of Coordinator-in-Training, and we'll probably make it official in the next month. Since I'm already training new recruits, I might as well get paid for it. I'll keep you posted on how my move goes. I'm starting to purge--what a job! Hard to know what to keep, but If I haven't used it or worn it for a long time, it should probably go.