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Thanks Emma, I will do some searching and viewing and move away from depressing myself with Youtubers documenting the pace that the UK NHS gender services move at. I was watching someone who said about accessing the services, "You can either pay for your transition with money, or with time." It stuck with me because it is true, in any transaction there is a triangle of quality, speed and cost and you can only ever get two out of three at most. I would rather go slow and have a quality (genuinely thought through) experience than rush and regret something later. I will be fine. I always am. x

It's been a while since visiting here, little has changed other than being asked to work for a global/major tech company several weeks ago which I have accepted. Yes they know my past and that is not an issue. I've always said that work hard and have a determination no matter what gender you are will get you places. Sadly there are many companies who discriminate against anyone who is not cisgender but that will only change when those of us who are not classified cisgender refuse to lay down and submit. Now the proud owner of two Mazda Miata's, a 2016 and recently a 2019. It's been just under four years since transitioning and hardly give my current life a second thought living as I should had been years ago but that's life.

Dear Karen, Miss you very much but I rejoice at the good news! My heartfelt thanks for sharing your life so openly with us. We have learned more than you can know! Your friend, Monica

Hi, I'm really happy to hear from you on TG Guide again! Also just love your new Mazda! I think I speak for many that you've been an inspiration and I for one am truly grateful that you've shared your experience so completely and honestly. I hope to hear more from you from time to time. It has helped me far more than I can express.