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Thank you to everyone on the forum who helped me sort out my feelings, learn, and work things out. Yesterday we celebrated our 21st anniversary, and I can say we've really rebuilt this marriage and it's going strong. And managed to get home from dinner through Ohio's surprise ice storm. Outback Steakhouse is nice food(lobe their chicken tortilla soup) but not worth dying over!

Love you too Monica! I've enjoyed and leaened from all our convesations and you have definitely touched my life! : ) They are putting the bloomin onion batter on the chicken now. I didn't try it tho. LOL I also love the bloomin onion but hardly ever get to eat it, Nikki hated onion ring type things and that is too much for one and doesn't leftover well.

Dear Briannah, Congratulations 🎉❣️👏 on your 21st wedding anniversary! Agree that a marriage has to be built every day, like a garden has to be tended to every day. A marriage can not run itself on autopilot, just like a car can not be expected to run itself (ok, at least not until very recently!) Briannah, I live you open and honest dialogue! Love the "Blooming Onion" at the Outback Steakhouse! Again, congratulations on your wedding anniversary, and may you and Nikki have many more! Your friend, Monica

I think goal posts should always be examined, from the psychiatric to job/life choices to the boring mundane little daily habits and food choices. We learn by quesrioning and the reflections needed to find our answers. It opens the doors to growth and improvement. Things that are true and right for us pesonally will remain, usually with a greater understanding of how we got to them and if one is lucky a host of new options to further our growth and avchieving goals. We are not static, our goals should grow with us! Sorry for bad typing, finger is in a splint from a klutz fall and it'd really hard to type like this.