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Hiya Ren. As always, a great blog Young Man. Ren, that is a lovely photograph, of You with Gabriel. ( Ren, two happy; and contented guy's together ! ). Ren, We have a beautiful cat as well. She is white and black, with 3 black spot's down each side of Her back. I have always been a cat lover, and I always will be ! Ren, Please give Gabriel a cuddle and stroke for Me. Ren, Take Care Young Man, And My Very Best Wishes to You; Justin; and Gabriel. Love Stephanie. xxxx

​Hi Ren. I agree with Veronica. You did handle it like a Boss - Very Professional. Well Done Young Man. I Am glad that Justin was with You as well. Ren, fingers, toes, and everything else crossed for You, and hopefully You will Not have to wait for too long. Your top Photograph, shows what a Very Handsome Young Man that You are. The second Photograph shows how well that You are doing with the Treadmill. You could always donate any larger clothes to Charity. Ren, I hope that Alex and everyone else are All well, also, I hope that Justin is keeping well also. Ren, It Is always good to hear from You. All the Best to Alex and everyone else. Ren, You and Justin Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

Hiya Briannah. That Darling Girl, is one heck of a list. If it is of Any help, I have hardly any contact with Any of My Own Family. I have No contact with My Parent's whatsoever, and that has been the case for over 18 Year's now, Thank Goodness ! Briannah, I Am at the other side of the table to You honey. I have been MtoF Transitioning, for almost 10 1/2 Month's now, but through Your Post's, and Blog's, I know how hard that thing's have been, for Both You and Nikki. I " Came-Out " to My Wife, on 30th. April, 2015, and I started Buying Female Undies and Clothes; Wearing Them; and Being " Out " in Public, on 1st. May, 2015. My Wife did Not Know, that I Am Transsexual, before. So I understand what it must have been like for You with Nikki. I Personally think that You have been very mature, especially gaining advice from TGGuide, but also because You are able to share advice with other People as well. Briannah, both You and Nikki, have been on a Massive Learning CurveCurve in the last couple of Month's. I know that You have also had Major Health Problem's. I hope that You are Okay now. My Own Wife has had Major Problem's in the last 2 1/2 Month's, including Emergencies, needing Hospitalisation. Briannah, I Am here for You and Nikki, should Either of You wish to talk. Briannah, Good Luck, Good Health, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxx.

Hiya Luna. It Is Good to hear from You. I Am glad to hear that thing's are going so well for You. I have been Fully "Out" for over 10 Month's now, and I have never been happier. I Love wearing My Dresses, or Blouses/Top's and Skirt's, and it does Not matter where I go, I have got All the Confidence, to wear whatever I want. Luna You lucky Girl, about to start HRT. That would be the thing that would greatly help Me with the Gender Dysphoria. Luna, It Is great news that Your work are treating You as the Person You really are. Luna, I hope We will speak soon. Good Luck, Good Health, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

Hiya Chrissy. I Am so glad that thing's are working out for You Young Lady. You deserve to have nice thing's happen for You. Chrissy, since I have known You on here, You have come on Leap's and Bound's, and You Can Be so Very Proud of Yourself. Chrissy, You are such a Patient, Kind-Hearted Young Lady. Chrissy, Good Luck, Good Health, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxx

Hiya Briannah. Being A Fully; Full-Time; Transitioning; Transsexual; I Wear some Very Pretty Black Bra's; Black Knocker's; Black Suspender-Belt's; And Black Stocking's. ( I do Not like Tight's, I find Them uncomfortable ! ). I Love Pretty Dresses, or Blouses/Top's and Skirt's. Having lost 14 Inches ( U.K. ) from My Waistline, having lost over 3 Stone's ( U.K. ) in Weight. I have got the Complete Confidence to Wear All these out in Public. I Never liked Clothes Shopping, before I started Transitioning. Since living Fully; Full-Time; as Female; I Love Female-Clothes Shopping. My local Marks and Spencer store, and My local BHS ( British Home Stores ), are where I normally shop for My clothes. Briannah, Nikki is lucky to have You to shop with. I do everything Myself. As long as the two of You can enjoy shopping together, that can only be a Positive. Briannah, if the two of You can keep talking, I don't think that You will go far wrong. ( If either of You want to talk at any time, and want to P.M. Me, Please feel free. Good Health, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes to You Both, Stephanie. xxxx

Hiya Briannah. You Do Not have Any reason, to be ashamed of being You. If it is of any help, I do Understand A.D.D. We have 3 Young Son's, who are All on The Autistic Spectrum, in varying degrees, and the middle one, has more A.D.H.D. ( Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder ; than Autism. So living with that everyday, I do have some understanding Bree. I think You are doing the right thing, by writing in this Forum. You need to talk, and You have done really well, doing All the research, that You have already. Briannah, We are here for You and Nikki. ( Never think that You are on Your own ! ). Briannah, Good Health, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xx

Hiya Briannah. You and Nikki have it seems, come a very long way, in a very short space of time. Something, You can Both be Very Proud of. I Am Very Happy that We have become Friend's, here on TGGuide. Nikki is so lucky to have a Lovely Understanding Young Wife in You - Briannah. My Own Wife, hates Me being Transsexual, although She has been cheating on Me, for over 2 Year's, with Different Men, and Different Women. Briannah, You and Nikki are Both Very Special People, the fact that You are taking the time to understand each other's Needs, Both Emotionally, and Physically. Briannah, I obviously Know from Personal Experience, that Transitioning is Not Easy, but, I Am Lucky, that My Friend's are sticking by Me. I hope that Your Friend's stick by You Both, as Kindness is something that You - Briannah, and Nikki, Both deserve. I have been Fully; Full-Time Female Living, for 9 1/2 Month's now, and I Love My Pretty Female Undies; Clothes; And, Nightwear. Nikki is very lucky that You are able to give Him Help and Guidance, with His Female-Dressing. ( I have had No Help with Mine ! ). Briannah, I wish Only Great thing's for Yourself and Nikki. Please remember that I Am here for You Both, should You Wish To, Or Need To Talk. Enjoy the rest of the Day, and You Know that I Am here. Good Health, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes to You Both. With Love and Hugs, Stephanie. xxxx

Hiya Briannah And Nikki. You ARE BOTH Very Brave Individually, And As Husband And Wife. My Thought's are with YOU BOTH, as I should imagine that Today is Not going to be easy for Either of You, or for Your Mutual Friend either. Briannah And Nikki, You are obviously Very Loving, and Very Caring towards Each Other, and that My Darling's, is Absolutely Fantastic. If Nikki, You can Open-Up to Your Mutual Friend, and They to You, I think it WILL Do ALL of You some Good. Please Do NOT be afraid to shed some tear's either. ( I have ALWAYS Been an emotional Person, even as a Youngster. ) . Briannah and Nikki, You are Both, already, held in Very High Esteem, right here on TGGuide. We are so lucky, to have a Couple, who Are so Open, and Honest, and Loving, here with Us on TGGuide. I Know that I have Not been able to comment on All Your Post's on here, but, I can assure You Both, that I have read them All, with interest and it is great, that You can Both express Yourselves on here openly. Briannah And Nikki, this TGirl has nothing but the Utmost Love and Respect, for You as individual's, and as a Couple. Briannah And Nikki, Good Luck, Good Health, Take Care, And My Love, And My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xxxx

Hiya Luna. Congratulations Honey. I "Came-Out" as Transsexual, on the Evening of 30th. April, 2015, to My Wife, then during the Daytime of 1st. May, 2015, I started Buying Female Undies and Clothes, and Wearing Them, and Being "Out" in Public, All on the Same Day. I have got Nothing to Hide, or No-One to Hide from. I thought it Best that way. I have been very lucky, that I Have Got an incredible number of People, who are Supporting and Encouraging Me. For Me, Wearing a Dress, or Wearing a Blouse or Top and Skirt, is as Natural as getting up in the Morning's. Luna, I hope that this also helps to give You additional Encouragement and Support. Like Veronica, and Emma, I Am here for You, and Fully Support You. You Are very Brave, and Sensible, letting People have the Information, directly from You. That Is the Very Best Way Honey. Luna, be Very Proud to be on the Outside, Who You have Always been on the Inside. I Personally, have Known since I was 3 Year's of Age, that I Am Female, Trapped, in A Male Body. To Me, " Coming-Out ", was Like having A Massive-Weight, Lifted-Off, Both of My Shoulder's, and I have been far Happier, and So Much more Contented, since " Coming-Out ", than Ever before. When I Look in a mirror, I see a Female, not a "M". Luna, Enjoy Your Femininity Honey. I feel more Feminine, each and every day, and I Am Not even on H.R.T., yet. Luna, Good Luck, Good Health, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

Hiya Jamie. Welcome to TGGuide. I Am Stephanie, A 54 Year-Old MtoF Transitioning Transsexual,from The U.K. Jamie, Your poem is lovely. It Is Always nice to read Poetry that Is so Well thought out. Jamie, Please keep the Poetry coming. I hope that like Me, You make a lot of Friend's here on TGGuide. Veronica, and Her Wife Violet are 2 of the Loveliest Ladies on here. TGGuide Is the Safest, Most Caring Place to be. Jamie, I look forward to hearing from You on here. Speak Soon, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie.

Hiya Eve. I Am so glad that I Am Transitioning. Again, like You, I had always hated living life in the Wrong Gender. My Proper Life, My Female Life, has made Me so much Happier, and Contented. I have always Hated My " M " Part's. I have always wished that when I go to sleep at night, that I would wake up in the morning with Female Parts instead. I Know this Is The Gender Dysphoria. So I Know that I Am Definitely on the right track by Transitioning. So many people have told Me, that I have been far more approachable, since I started Transitioning, over 9 Month's ago, because I Am a Much Calmer, and Happier Person. Eve, I hope that thing's are going well for You. Have a Great Weekend. Good Health, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

Hiya Chrissy. Emma has definitely made some excellent comment's there. Chrissy, get what You can out of the Perisher's, and make it work for You, Love. Look after Number One Chrissy, and that Is You. Chrissy, Have a Good Day, and a Great Weekend ahead. Remember Chrissy, We are here, for You. Good Luck, Good Health, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

Hiya Karen. It does indeed seem like You have made a New Friend at work. It also seems like You are already doing well with the voice lesson's. Karen, since I have known You here, which is well over half a year now, You have done so many positive thing's. Karen, Take a Long Hard Look at Yourself, in a Full-Length Mirror, and say to Yourself, I Am Very Proud Of Me. Because Karen, You Can Be Very Proud of Yourself. You are a Very Pretty, Beautiful, Young Lady, Who has done so well since G.R.S. You are a Very Lovely Lady, someone whom I Am Very Proud to Call A Friend, albeit through TGGuide. Karen, I hope You enjoy Your Car Club drive this Weekend. Take Care, and Mind How You Go. Karen, Speak Soon, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

Hiya Chrissy. I Am a former Union Shop Steward. I hate the way that Management treat People. Chrissy, this situation stinks of Gender Discrimination. It Is Totally Disgraceful. I fully feel Your hurt over the Situation. Chrissy, You are a Lovely Lady, and You do Not deserve to be treated so badly. Chrissy, Do Not let the " So-And-So's " get You down. Good Luck, Good Health, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

Hiya Luna. " Coming-Out ", is A Massive Step. I Personally, " Came-Out " as MtF Transsexual, on 30th. April, 2015, and I started Buying Undies; Clothes; And Nightwear; Plus Wearing them; and Being " Out " in Public; ALL on 1st. May, 2015. Luna, You are so right about one Beautiful thing about Being Openly Female, is All the ways You get to express Yourself. Well, I love being able to wear All the Dresses, and Top's and Skirt's, and Undies, and also, Nail-Varnish; and Lipstick, that I should have always been able to wear. For Me, " Coming-Out " was like having a Massive Weight, Lifted-Off, Each Of My Shoulder's. I Am much Happier, and Far More Contented, and Relaxed within Myself, than I had ever been before. I Love Being Openly Female. My Friend's have All stuck by Me, but, My Wife is Not Supportive ! Luna, I Am very glad that Your Family and Friend's have stuck by You. Luna embrace being You, the Female You always have been on the inside. Enjoy Your Femininity. Luna, I know what You mean about Your heart being flooded with emotion's. My heart is as well, and I Am Not yet on H.R.T. Luna, I Am also here for You. I Love and Respect, and Honour You as well, especially for " Coming-Out ", and being able to be You. It Is definitely a Privilege to " Come-Out " to The World, and I agree with You, that It Is an Honour to " Come-Out " to Yourself. Luna, between Mid-August 1988, and Late-February 1996, I made 3 Serious Suicide Attempt's, because I was Not able to " Come-Out ", because, back then, there was Not the Acceptance, and Support, that there Is now. I will Promise You this. I definitely Am Not going to attempt that again ! Luna, You are Lovely, Wonderful, and Great. It Is A Pleasure, to have You, as a Friend and Fellow Member, here on TGGuide. Luna, Good Luck, Good Health, Take Care, and My Love and Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xx

Hiya Veronica. Thank You Honey. Your Kindness, Love, And Support, are Greatly Appreciated. You Know that I Am Always here for You as well ! Veronica, to You and Violet, Good Health, Take Care, And My Love, And My Very Best Wishes Hugs, Stephanie. xx

Hiya Luna. Congratulations Sweetheart. I heard from Charing Cross Hospital - Gender Identity Clinic, on Wednesday of Last Week. They sent Me the Consent Form's, and other Paperwork. I filled them out, and returned them, on the same day. I Am now just playing the waiting game. You are obviously a lot further on than Me. Luna, You Can be Very Proud Honey. Good Luck, Good Health, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love, Stephanie. xx

Hiya Luna. I Am so glad that You have got such an understanding boss. To have New Business Cards, with Your New Name Luna on it, is Brilliant. Wow Honey, things are going Your way. Good on You Luna, and Thanks for sharing this with Us Love. Good Luck, Good Health, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xx

Hiya Karen. That is a very nice line-up of Car's. I Am so glad that You get to enjoy Your drives out, on Saturday Morning's. It Is Not the speed that matters, just the sheer driving enjoyment instead. Using Walkie-Talkie's is an excellent idea. It Is almost 10 Year's since I had to stop driving, through health-problems, but, at one time. when I was working on early shift's only, I used to drive about 140 UK Miles, to somewhere that I used to enjoy going for My Lunch, which was a Home-Made Roast Dinner, Beef/Pork/Lamb with Fresh Vegetable's. I then had a 150 UK Miles Drive Home, afterwards. I did this usually 3 or 4 times a week ! This involved driving on main road's, and side road's, where I could stop, get out, and have a walk around, to enjoy some very lovely scenery. So I get Your enjoyment of Driving for fun, completely. Karen, I hope that You have very many Year's of Your driving enjoyment. Take Care, With My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx .

Hiya Chrissy.. The name Chrissy is Lovely by the way. A Very Pretty; Very Feminine Name. As You and I, and So Many Other's know, Gender Dysphoria is Real. Like You, I dislike those who question the Reality of Gender Dysphoria. It Is So Very Real. I have Known since I was 3 Year's Of Age, that I Am Female, Trapped, In A Male Body. There are so Many other aspects of The Gender Dysphoria, which have reared their Ugly heads, over the Year's. " Coming-Out " was like having a Massive Weight, Lifted-Off, Both of My Shoulder's. Living Fully Full-Time, as a Female, has made Me feel so much happier, and calmer in Myself as well. Your New Profile Photograph, shows what a Lovely, Pretty, Beautiful, and Happy Young Lady, that You have now become. Chrissy, Have a Great Weekend. Good Health, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

​Hiya Emma. I bet You find the feelings get stronger each time. They did with Me, before I " Came-Out", which in itself, was like having A Massive Weight, Lifted-Off, Both Of My Shoulder's. Emma Sweetheart, You have absolutely No need to feel embarassed. We are Your Friend's that You are Speaking with. Emma like Eve, I also think that You are getting to the point of Not wanting to carry on living as You are, anymore and realising that You have to change. It Is Scary, Yes. Emma, when You feel like the time is right to change, go for it. We Are Here For You, When You Do. Sweet Lady, I Am So much Happier, Living Full-Time as the Female, that I have Always been inside. I think You may well feel the same way when You Change, and I think it may happen sooner, rather than later. When it Does happen, Embrace It, and Enjoy It ! Emma, Good Luck, Good Health, Take Care, And My Love And Very Best Wishes, Big Hugs, Stephanie. xxxoooxxx.

Hiya Emma. You are a very sensitive Young Lady, because You are Female. I Am very sensitive, and even before I " Came-Out " as Transsexual, My emotion's used to appear very easily. Emma, embrace Your Femininity, and don't shy away from it. Whether You do or do Not have G.R.S., does Not stop them from being Transgender/Transsexual. ( Personally, I Do want Full G.R.S. But that Is My Own Personal choice. ) Emma, Please remember thiis, I Am here for You, if ever You need to talk. I appreciate All the support that You show to Us All. Emma, Take Care Sweetheart, and Big Hug:s to You. With My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xx

I was always a Fan of David Bowie's music. Changes, I always Loved. I was also a big Fan of Freddie Mercury too. I always felt that Queen's track's, were Freddie's life-story, put to music. The word's described Freddie's life. I was brought up with The Beatles, The Rolling Stones, Rod Stewart, and other "Great's" too, like Elvis Presley, and Black Sabbath. I have Not met Ozzie Osborne, but, I have met his wife Sharon, on 3 separate occasion's, when I delivered to their Buckinghamshire, U.K. home. Sharon is lovely, and I found her to be very down to earth, to speak with face to face.

It Is just so sad, that both Whitney Houston, and Her Daughter, have both gone. I loved Whitney's early music too ! Drug's are a scourge, and dreadful, when abused ! We have lost too many musician's, and singer's too early !