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KarenPayne

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  1. Hopefully 2016 can live up to the example 2015 left ^_^

    Speaking of doing things with nails, I recently bowled for the first time with long nails, broke 3 of them. I might never bowl again ;)

    ​Since I have gone to longer nails I went from shellac to acrylic which are so much stronger then shellac. I pay 20 dollars for regular nail treatment, 35 for shellac and 45 for acrylic. Just had them done in acrylic with a twist, french style where the white part was pure acrylic white and was very cool process, took just over one hour. Now and then I will cut my nails down and go with a regular treatment but that has been a while. My main reason for stronger nails was at least three times I broke my right thumb nail closing my car trunk. Since moving up have not broken a single nail.

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  2. We had a wonderful wedding and afterwards our reception was in a grand old house, a relative whom is very well off, my band played live, I joined in for several songs on the guitar. For our honeymoon we spent a week in the Pocono mountains where the last three days we were joined by good friends and hit black diamond ski slops.   

    The marriage lasted 15 years and at that point Karen needed out.

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  3. Many people need time and space to reconcile with these matters so it's usually in one's best interest to do so. When I made my announcement to most people the phrase "I am still the same person you always known, that has not changed" was spoken and believe it carried much weight.

    Continued best wishes in your journey.

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  4. Nicely done sir, I can see talent in your drawings and also may be the dysphoria in them with regards to facial expressions. Have you thought about doing a diary along with drawing pictures? Many times pictures and words tell a story better than we ourselves can with the spoken word, gives the reader time to pause and think about what they read and see and may be this might help with your parents getting a better idea what you are going through and possibly in the future a therapist trained to work with trans youth.

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  5. Hello Jack,

    If you are sure and it sounds that way in regards to being male stuck in a female body then this is the right step to come out as keeping this to yourself will only be harmful in the long run. Without knowing all the facts I would say be careful to how you continue your journey regarding communication with your parents, play it smart, don't push them too hard simply put yourself in their shoes and try to work from there.

    These blogs are a great outlet so by all means write away!

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  6. Been following you for a while now and if I learned nothing else you need to keep going as the older you get the more the brain will drive you to whom you should be and that can be more problematic at an older age. Since I can't know exactly what you are going through all I can say is keep going. It's not going to happen unless you make it happen, same with me when I realized insurance was of no help.

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  7. Interesting in that there are people who will ask questions like, how big is it and how do you have sex. For me, I have only discussed these things with very close friends and have not had anyone ask me these question who are simply co-workers. If they do ask I would change the topic and if that did not work would simply say it's none of your business.

     

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