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MonicaPz

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About MonicaPz

  • Birthday 01/19/1958

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    Am a cisgender Lesbian with an open mind. Have many TG friends in Florida, New York, and all over the world. Exploring art. Enjoy coffee houses with live music. Visit museums and art galleries. Am on disability, using a cane. Sedate but have an active mind.

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  1. Dear Jennifer, I thank G_D I have no children or grand children, and that my nieces.nephews and great nieces/nephews have avoided this rubbish! New York State has avoided this but Florida (where I got my high school junior and senior classes and university degree) has surely gone downhill . . . Yours in Sisterhood, Monica
  2. Jennifer, whatever you do, don't make contact!
  3. Dear Jennifer, Sometimes suddenly passing away is marked by family/friends/lovers (ex's included) dreaming and thinking about them. Her spirit may be trying to contact you to say they are sorry for hurting you, even if it's long ago. They may have harmed many people so they might be contacting each to apologize. My take, anyways. Try to forgive them and tell them to go towards the light. Yours in Sisterhood, Monica
  4. Dear Jennifer, If you met your ex from 20 years ago today, you would be very different people. It would be highly unlikely you would be friends, much less lovers. Her cheating on you shows there is much to be desired about her character. Be grateful that you have a woman who loves you for you! Your friend, Monica
  5. Dear MaryEllen, I agree 💯 👍 percent! I think every school and house of worship should have well trained armed security!! I am 65 and I am amazed what the world has come to. My parents would have spun in their graves!!! Yours in Sisterhood, Monica
  6. Dear Jennifer, School shootings are a daily occurrence! The US has more school shootings than any other country in the world. I don't know what the answer is, but I would probably homeschool my children or raise them overseas if I had children. Yours truly, Monica
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    Part 6. What if...

    Dear More, Emma and Jessica, Please consider the Lesbian community. More, your wife should be open-minded about the Lesbian community. They have a lot of activities. I strongly suggest looking into Lesbian Connection Magazine. Also, Moe, since you have a wife, may I suggest you get active in transgender conferences. They often have significant other (SO) support groups. I am a cisgender mid-butch Lesbian, and the love of my life was a mid-femme transgender Lesbian. Don't give up! Yours in Sisterhood, Monica
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    Part 5/ Why am I like this?

    Dear Emma, I am sure transgenderism is 100% organic, with no psychosocial cause. When looking for a partner, you want to find a woman who complements you, as well as help you fulfill your needs as a woman. It also goes in the reverse direction, too, in that you want to seek to validate your partner. Your friend, Monica
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    Part 3 Being a Man

    Girls, a lot of women like to hunt. As for me, I have a "Bambi Complex"! LOL!!
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    Just a thought?

    Dear Jessica, There are good and badly behaved people in all sectors of life. Sadly, recently I had to jettison two transgender women and the mother of a trans man because they were abusive to me, thinking I was vulnerable and would take it with a smile. Think of it as that we are all human and have to be judged individually. You may be surprised who accepts you and who doesn't. Don't assume you will be accepted just because you share some characteristic. Your friend, Monica
  11. Jessica, I knew I was Lesbian (and an empath since four years old - although it took decades for me to find the right words. I am so happy you found closure, as I have! Your friend, Monica
  12. Dawn, I love the color and fit of your bra!

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    2. MonicaPz

      MonicaPz

      Dawn, you look like a California girl!

    3. Dawn13

      Dawn13

      Thanks - Actually this photo was taken in Flagstaff AZ.  One of our overnight stops in route to the wedding in Berkeley CA

    4. MonicaPz

      MonicaPz

      OK, Dawn, you look like a California girl in Flagstaff, Arizona. LOL!

  13. Mike, I recently ordered transgender flag pull-apart cupcakes for a group of my transgender and allies friends along with rainbow jello cups. I'm sure your mother would have loved the party! LOL!! On a serious note, your mother and father should rejoice they have a healthy, well put together son! It saddens me when parents have expectations for what their children are going to be. My mother kept trying for a girl, only to get me, as her only daughter, when she wanted a Shirley Temple lookalike. Sadly, we create our own misery . . . Your friend, Monica
  14. Dear Donna,

    Thank you for following me.

    May I ask, may I follow you?

    Yours truly,

    Monica

    1. Donna1955

      Donna1955

      Hi Monica, yes I would very much welcome your follow. Thank you!

  15. Hi, I’m Donna and glad to be here! I’m asking for advice from others concerning Breast Forms that can be glued to the chest with medical grade adhesive. I’ve researched on line and there are so many to choose from that it’s a bit overwhelming. I’m looking for quality ones and not the cheapest in price. Any advice, comments or past experiences would really be helpful.

    Thanks,

    Donna

    1. MonicaPz

      MonicaPz

      Dear Donna,

      I realize TGGuide is not very active now, but I have some suggestions for you.

      Google, "How should a transgender/cross dressing woman look for in choosing breast forms?"

      Also, put this in the search box at YouTube.

      Also, on Wednesdays, there is Cross Dressers International (C.D.I.) that meets on Zoom at 7 PM. Even they say "cross dressers" in their name, about half of them are transgender women. You will have to join on meetup.

      Even though your question is about breast forms, there are many other issues about being a woman. That's where TGGuide comes in. I highly recommend you read all the comments in the Forums and Blogs, whether you think they apply to you or not. You may be surprised that you may get a question answered you weren't aware of asking.

      Please consider joining local support groups (many are resuming on Zoom because of the uptick of COVID.

      Also, I know they are somewhat expensive, but gender conferences offer many seminars on all kinds of topics. You could Google, "gender conferences near me."

      Please feel free to ask us any questions you may have. Our members are knowledgeable, kind and supportive. Also our members are of all ages, relationship styles and sexual orientations.

      We are here for you!

      Yours truly,

      Monica

    2. Donna1955

      Donna1955

      Thank you for your feedback and all the helpful information you’ve provided me. I will definitely follow your advice and direction!

      Thanks again,

      Donna

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