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About MonicaPz

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  • Birthday 01/19/1958

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  • Gender Female
  • Location Beacon NY
  • Interests Am a CG Lesbian with an open mind. Have had many TG friends when I lived in Florida. Exploring art. Enjoy coffee houses with live music. Visit museums and art galleries. Am on disability, using a cane. Sedate but have an active mind.

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  1. MonicaPz

    "In the last 20 years, only 20% of workers have received a pay raise" - PBS NewsHour

  2. Dawn13 » MonicaPz

    Monica - Trying to figure out our new site. My voice is very male sounding so you might be surprised even though I can be quite feminine in appearance. I hope to join a telecom soon but must be on a day my wife is out. 

    My wife has become a bit jealous of time I spend with my transgender friends.  And I know she would not like to overhear my conversation as she now wants me to limit my time on this site.  She does understand, but we have been going to counseling with the goal of containing my transgender tendencies so we will remain married (And I do love her). 

    This is all good and I do appreciate your friendship.  I know I will talk to you someday.  I still try to grasp with who I am in a world that makes it hard to allow me to be me.  Love and Kisses - Dawn :)


    1. MonicaPz


      Thank you for your patience with the upgrades on TGGuide.  Most of all, there will be an increase in security.

      Many of our married members are dealing with the same issues as you.

      Yours truly,


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  3. MonicaPz

    "When you think of how few people have killed and destroyed in the name of the devil; and how many have done so in the name of God; it makes you think." - Janet (Mrs.) Asimov

    1. UsernameOptional

      LOL. I never looked at it like that. Yeah. DOES make ya think! I believe I need to add that to the list of stuff on my profile... :D

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    2. Emma

      Yeah, and from Mrs. Asimov, too! Tres cool. :-)

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    3. Ronnie Virga

      No. It doesn't make me think. I'm pretty sure God and Satan DO NOT need our help. Angry Monkey has wholesale butchering down to a fine art.

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  4. MonicaPz

    Women have only gain 14 CENTS toward pay equity with men in the last 30 years - American Association of University Women (AAUW)

  5. MonicaPz

    On Monday, when the nurse from the county health department stopped in to evaluate me for a home attendant, she asked me if I was transgender. I said no, I am a cisgender Lesbian.

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    2. Emma

      What an odd question for her to ask. I suppose in one sense it was respectful since she at least recognized that one might be transgender, perhaps might want appropriate pronouns. So I suppose that overall it's an okay question. How did it make you feel?

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    3. MonicaPz

      Am ok with ANY respectful question. This has not been the first time. Rejoiced I was asked respectfully in a very homo and trans phobic county!

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    4. KarenPayne

      I would had asked "what makes you think that?"

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  6. MonicaPz

    Last night, while watching Charlie Rose on PBS, interviewing a panel of professors of psychiatry, that in an upcoming episode, they will be discussing GENDER!

    1. Emma

      That sounds like something to look forward to. We need to determine when and let everyone know.

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  7. MonicaPz

    According to the Pew Research Center, the average Black income is $11,000, Latino income is $13,700 and White income is $141,900. Check out their website, It's very interesting!

    1. Emma

      Monica, while I intuitively believe that White income is higher than Black or Latino, I cannot imagine that the "average" White income is almost $142K. I looked at the website and cannot find the data you're referring to!

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    2. MonicaPz

      It was quoted in an article (can't remember where) and the information on Pew Research changes constantly. Couldn't find it either on the website. If I find it, I will let you know.

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    3. Emma

      Okay, thanks!

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  8. MonicaPz

    "To be what we are, and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the only end of life." - Baruch Spinoza

    1. KarenPayne

      I like it

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  9. MonicaPz

    "The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." - Winston Churchill

    1. Emma

      Wonderful Monica!

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    2. KarenPayne

      Could not agree more

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  10. MonicaPz

    Happy Holidays to my wonderful friends here at TGGuide!

  11. MonicaPz

    Even neuro- and trans-typical individuals are on the transgender spectrum.