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Lisa, Can't improve on it! Please, everyone, weigh in on this! Monica

Dear Christie, In my opinion, you are a heterosexual woman, and should be with either a cisgender or transman heterosexual man. Easier said than done. Just because you are a woman with a penis does not make you a Gaymale. May I suggest you take your time and find an understanding heterosexual man or transman. Feel an excellent resource is http://www.TGPersonals.com In your ad, mention that you are pre-op but identify as a heterosexual female. Read the other ads to get an idea what you want to put in or not put in your ad. Hope this helps. Yours truly, Monica

Friends, Excellent video! MUST VIEWING!! Monica

Christie, You go, girl! Monica

Veronica, You are 100% a lady RIGHT NOW. There are some cisgender women (like me!) who don't pass. I know you are a lady by the way you write, and I know I am a lady. Have to prove NOTHING to NO ONE. Monica

Karen, We understand and look forward to your return! Monica

Have news for "Pamela": When you make "you" statements, that is the same as pointing a finger at someone; you have three pointing back at you. Secondly, the most important thing is NOT how you pass as a woman. The most important thing is what is going on between the ears! Being a woman starts from the inside and works it's way out. It is NOT how you dress; it is how you ACT! Monica

Karen, in my opinion, mothers and daughters feel more comfortable talking about sex, just as father and sons prefer to talk to each other about sex. Interestingly, women will talk to other women about sex, just as men talk to other men about sex. Think over time, your mother will treat you more and more like the daughter you are to her. Monica

Karen, have volunteered at various hospitals through the years, and I wish that I could have had the opportunity to volunteer with Dr. Marci Bowers! Monica

Karen and Emma, Wish Marci Bowers and other GRS surgeons had local VOLUNTEERS at their clinics and hospitals to provide their patients support . . . Monica

Emma, in a group therapy situation it is the THERAPIST'S JOB to maintain an EMOTIONALLY SAFE atmosphere! Monica

Blue is my favorite color, then pink and then purple. Love EVERY shade of blue and purple brings lovely memories of Easter!

Dear Warren, Was deeply moved by the song. Beg EVERYONE to click on Warren's link, because I feel that song speaks to ALL of us! Yours truly, Monica

Pamala, also love the image of the Superwomen!

My Dear Friends, I had a nightmare childhood, and I am grateful I have found reconciliation with both my parents before they died. Sadly, although things have improved with my brothers (I have no sisters), we have a long ways to go. Eve, as for Guardian Angels, I believe they are REAL, and that the average person has not only one, but THREE! They never sleep and ALWAYS are alert, even when we sleep!! Your friend, Monica

Don't know if they exist, but I wonder if there are men's one piece swimsuits. If I find it, I will let you know.

Dear Lisa, Rejoice when I see a woman take such good care of her mother, and stays in touch with her sister. Have three brothers and a half brother. Have no sisters. Have no children. Wonder how my life could have been different have I had children or a sister. Of course, it could be heartbreaking. They will be losing a son and a brother, but gaining a daughter and a sister! May God bless your family! Your friend, Monica

Karen, one thing that impressed me was that you were having ongoing dialogue with face to face friends and TGGuide members right up until going under the knife, and for that matter, as soon as you woke up, and continuing non-stop, which is the best way to live life!

Haley, you are NOT ALONE! Monica

Would like to see 'no touch' technology for flushing, turning on water at the sink and opening the door!

Dear Karen, As a cisgender woman, I had a 'B' Cup (34 B from ages 11 to 21. Weighed 125 lbs. and was 5'8." My measurements was 34-24-34. Wish I had those numbers today! LOL!! Yours truly, Monica

I go NUTS in a dirty restroom!

Dear Emma, I think you are a very good mother. Your son needs to learn boundaries. Your son is not independent, but willful. Feel that he is emotionally blackmailing his parents. Such a child will approach their mother FIRST. PLEASE hand tough, because, someday, you and his other parent won't be there to bail him out . . . My thoughts and prayers are with you . . . Your friend, Monica