We had almost given up hope. My phone rang again this afternoon. Pete, the cook at Victorian's Midnight Cafe had adopted a stray from behind the bar last Thursday. It was Trouble! He's home safe and sound. He has a brand new collar, fresh pe...Read More

When I was about fifteen, I discovered the incredible joy of cross-country bicycling. For four years, I competed on an amateur level in Centuries and Double Centuries all over the mid west (a century is 100 miles). I was good, never great, but I did it...Read More

Singapore Gurlz sure know how to to PAAARRRTTTYYYY.... Singapore, 7th June 2008 The first weekend of June started out with a smashing fun time at Tocame. This sure beats watching re-runs on the telly. This night is where I found what a glass of Absin...Read More

My friend Chris is running Karaoke at EXILE on Wednesdays. I didn't make it last week, but I'm going tonight. I'm really not sure why every single Karaoke DJ downtown is one of my friends, but I blame Jasmine. It gives me a chance to try out my awes...Read More

Although our life starts at birth, many have a less travelled path to follow, with the help of those who understand and support the journey, the path becomes less constricting allowing for the freedom to express who you are. With that thought and open-...Read More

It just gets better and better .. 29th May 2008Singapore   I want to thank my dearest kinky friends for making the Thursday BDSM meet at Backstage a super block buster. Besides being such a fantastic night, the imposter from Collarme who ca...Read More

A fun night at TocaMe Singapore, 25 May 2008. We had antother fabulous night at TocaMe .The management and patrons there are very friendly and they made us feel at home. We made quite a new friends that night. We had the beautiful la chic...Read More

I've been craving Chicago Deep Dish Pizza for a while. Lynne took me to Pizzeria Uno over by Tuttle, and it was good, but not great. Then Sarah told me about Fabian's on High Street. I've driven by this place a dozen times and hadn't thought twice abou...Read More

My 20 year High School Reunion is coming up (yes, I graduated when I was 8. Shut up). Anyway, I was wandering around the reunion website and I stumbled upon my 5th grade self. Seriously. I don't even remember this one. 5th fucking grade. Sheesh. My b...Read More

Saturday Night lounge lizards 19-20 May 2008, Toca Me Bar, Singapore It was a last minute thing but it was an excellent way to spend the Saturday. I got a call from my gurlfriend Kaila who said that she wanted to hangout out in a cool bar that was ...Read More

Beach Blanket Bingo! at Triangles Café on Saturday, July 19th... Dress code (strongly encouraged): Beach Bunnies & Sun Goddesses, Havana Nights, Hawaiian Tropic, Sarongs & Wild Bikinis, Flower & Jungle Prints, Bo Derek's Bolero, Carm...Read More

Fetish Lingerie Night Singapore, 10-11th May 2008 What does Saturday, fetish, kink, lingerie and Singapore have in common? Five words: fun, fun, fun, fun, and fun. Is Singapore happening or what? With F1 and IR looming on its horizon, the SM...Read More

Singapore: Blink Blink bind bind Party Singapore, 26 April 2008. The theme "Blink blink & Bind Bind: time to find Your slaves and your Dominant" was a blend of fashion and fetish. It allowed people who are novices in SM to s...Read More

The nimrods from "Expelled " have a MySpace page. They were actually dumb enough to put up a poll "Should the theory of Intelligent Design be taught in schools?" Please go vote and let them know that you think. http://www.myspace.com/expelledthemovementRead More

Blings, winks, and kinks on a Saturday Night. 19-20 April 2008 MOX (www.mox.com.sg), Singapore A hot and sultry night it was but we're not talking about the weather. The joint BDSM society and SGGURLS outing saw 23+ gorgeous people gathe...Read More

Hey everyone! My next Triangles party in Danbury, CT is Sat. May 3rd! This will be the last one until at least mid-July, which is a hiatus of up to 10 weeks! So if you can make it and don't think you can wait until the summer, join us in May at Triangl...Read More

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Hi girls Just wanted to let you know that Melanie was able to get out in the day for the first time. The day started when I left my place at 5 am and headed up to Sacramento to be with my friend CC. It took me about 2 hours to get up there at around 7...Read More

Goodbye my childhood friend. You made me think about the world. You made me wonder. You made me thirst for more. I still re-read the paperback worlds you took me too, dog eared from their years in my pockets. At your feet, I met others. Asimov, Heinlei...Read More

Is Your Housemate an Atheist? by ~LivelyIvy on deviantART :) Read More

The Wicked Messenger: Gay Columnist’s Anti-Trans Hype was NOT funny... First Amendment rights notwithstanding, when it comes to some on-going, really sensitive subjects, the last line in the Bob Dylan tune of like title states, "If you canno...Read More

bdsmASIAnetwork: Corset NightSingapore, Saturday, 8th March 2008'Tis was a hot night, sizzling with some of the sexiest people in Singapore and they were all in MOX on a Saturday night sipping magaritas, wines and delicately well mixed house pours....Read More

Wether you support the war or not, it's hard to argue with the numbers that are coming in. There have been over 4300 US casualties and probably three times at many Iraqi deaths (not including civilians and non-combatants)You can stick your fingers ...Read More

[click for photos]   Lynne and I were in Detroit this weekend for the XBall, which happened to also be our Birthday. Overall, we had a good time. The Exotica Party is probably better, especially considering the main attraction is Emily Marilynn....Read More