Transgender Dating: We’re frequently asked for advice about trans community dating. It’s no surprise that there is some confusion about developing transgender relationships. Part of the problem is that we’re a rather diverse and complex group of people.
The transgender dating community includes cross dressers, t-girls, transsexuals, pre-op, post-op, non-op, MtF, FtM, androgynous, intersex, gender queer, gender fluid, significant others, cisgender individuals and more. Among these will be variations of straight, gay, bisexual, metrosexual, pansexual, asexual and questioning sexualities.
There is no one size fits all solution regarding transgender dating, but fortunately, there some guidelines that should help you navigate the transgendered dating world and meet friends or lovers that will open up new opportunities for you. If you want to meet someone special we would like to invite you to read this page and browse our dating articles.
Transgender Dating – TVTSDating.com Personals
Try a search of the transgender personals. Search members’ profiles with photos and bios. The TG personals functionality includes ability to search by gender, age, distance from you, body type, ethnicity and online status. You can search the personals or place your own photo ad and let them come to you. There are thousands of ads from t-girls and admirers looking for transgender dating. Search the huge database of ads to find transgendered women, men and admirers with exactly the characteristics you’re looking for.
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How to Meet T-Girls
There are actually many ways to connect with t-girls and admirers. Whether you’re looking for friends or a lover, there are a few things we can recommend that should make your search more productive. Most people probably think of online personals as the way to meet transgendered people, and it is very effective, however, there are other ways to meet t-girls and admirers and we will discuss some of those ways here.
The primary way you will meet t-girls and admirers is through transgender personals. It’s not the only way, but it’s where people who are serious about meeting others go to place and respond to ads. Lots of people use transgender personals, and for a variety of reasons. First, there are many transsexuals, cross dressers and transgendered people who seek the friendship of other t-girls. Transgender personals are a great way to meet new friends. Reach outside your normal circle of contacts to meet new friends who truly understand you. You’ll find lots of interesting people in the personals. Many of them are looking for romance or sex, but most also enjoy meeting new friends.
There are two ways to use the personals. First, you can browse the photos and profiles of t-girls and admirers in the personals to find those with the perfect traits for you. You’ll likely have hundreds of ads near you so you can be selective and look for just the right one. Second, you can place your own ad and let them come to you. Be sure to include a photo and you’ll have a much greater response to your ad.
Transgender Chat and Forums
Don’t overlook t-girl chat rooms and forums in your quest to meet Mr. or Ms. Right. We have an active transgender chat room and TG message forum here at TGGuide. Why not register an account and get to know some of our members. It’s always free and we believe some of the greatest TG folks in the world can be found right here at TGGuide.com! You might ask why we’re recommending chat rooms and forums. You never know who you’ll meet in the chat rooms or forums. Indeed, many relationships have blossomed after meeting in our chat room. Even if you don’t meet the love of your life, you’ll learn a lot about t-girls and the transgender community by engaging in the chats and forum discussions. This is a great way to meet new friends.
While it isn’t for everyone, nightclubs can offer a fun public place to go out dressed en femme, or to meet t-girls who are out on the town. Many crossdressers and transsexuals find comfort in TG friendly nightclubs where they quickly find that they’re accepted and welcomed. These nightclubs and bars are usually gay and lesbian bars that are transgender inclusive. Some will identify as GLBT (inclusive of the transgender community) while others will identify simply as gay and lesbian, but many still welcome transgender people.
We have a TG nightclubs directory here at TGGuide. This is a great place to start your search for a friendly and accepting nightclub where you can go en femme comfortably. Due to the nature of bars changing management and clientele, we strongly recommend that you do a little research. Go to Google.com and research the nightclubs. Locate and review their web sites or call ahead to be sure they still welcome t-girls. You’ll find virtually all staff at these nightclubs to be very friendly and informative on the telephone. No need to be shy. Give them a call and get information before you show up!
TG Support Groups
Most new cross dressers and transsexuals find it desirable and usually necessary to reach outside their normal circle of family and friends, to obtain the support they need. Let’s face it. Nobody understands us like other transgender folks. There are many groups dedicated to trans people. Some are more socially oriented groups while others are structured to be peer support groups. Some offer counseling and other support services for transgendered people.
We provide a list of transgender support groups here at TGGuide.com. These groups come and go so you should do a Google search to see if you locate support groups in your area. Do a new search for transgender support in “YOUR CITY.” If you find a group we haven’t listed or that needs to be corrected please contact us and let us know. These groups may or may not be focused on social activities, but you’ll meet new friends regardless.
Social Networking Sites
There are many transgendered people in the social networking sites. In fact, we invite you to network with us on Facebook and Twitter. Did you know our trans chat is a social networking site just for the transgender community? That’s right. Browse profiles to find local area friends, chat in our trans chat rooms, send private messages, add friends, share photos and post on our forums. Another possiblity is to join other social networking sites like Facebook, Myspace, Twitter, Tagged and others to locate transgender friends. You never know who you’ll meet. This is another great way to meet local friends or to set up connections for places where you travel.
Play it Safe
You should steer clear of criminals, drug users, liars and other undesirables. Please take the time to get to know people online before you provide any personal information. Use common sense to weed out the bad apples. Most t-girls and admirers are good people but there are definitely those who should be avoided. Screen them, just as you would any other friends or lovers. When you do meet someone you’ll become intimately involved with it’s a very good idea to practice safe sex.
It may take a little time and effort to find your perfect match. That’s ok. Anything worthwhile takes time and effort. Following our suggestions may help speed up your search. Don’t give up. There’s someone special out there hoping to find someone just like you!