My selected title here is yet another profound observation by Bob Dylan in the early 60s that takes on a new significance when applied to the current struggle for equality and basic civil rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender citizens of ou...Read More

A month ago I entered a memoir contest.  Here's a link to the story = http://tiffleigh.livejournal.com/75682.html.First place is that three publishing houses consider to your memoir for publication.  Second place is a set of steak knives. Now...Read More

Born different? In Colorado Springs, apparently you can just skip the issue of whether or not your difference is by birth. On varying subjects this could be debated back and forth, ad infinitum. What some in this city cannot handle is just that which f...Read More

"Transgender man's name change denied" reads the title of a recent article in the Rochester (NY) Democrat and Chronicle newspaper. http://www.democratandchronicle.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20060712/\NEWS 01/607120346/1002/NEWS____Althoug...Read More

those days when you  feel  absolutey   perfect  and are going  out en-femm aren't  often enough. Read More

Here is the poem I composed in March that some claimmade me a nominee for Poet of the Year - enjoy! _________Trans-Sister________  I once was a "boy"***But knew all along***That my outside packaging***Was definitely wrong!...Read More

Are we all too vain and self absorbed to not vote for certain segments of the membership? Today is the 6th of the month and there are not enough votes(10) cast for any of the Bois on this site. What? Too busy fixing your tiaras? Maybe that corsets too ...Read More

It never ceases to amaze me how much emphasis we place on appearances. The ONE thing that unites all of us is a need for outward expression of an inner feeling.*****Some of us go to great lengths to "alter" our appearances. I have empathy wit...Read More

The Personality of Gender Traits and Sexual Behavior or is it... Gender Behavior and Sexual Tendencies...? So, people have infinitely diverse personalities right? A personality is described by traits, traits are defined by what one does (behavior...Read More

Whew, well Pride Weekend is drawing to a close. This year was truly incredible. Not only did I take my kids to their first Pride, but we set records this year. According to different sources, attendance topped 100,000 this year and you could tell. Eve...Read More

 It's that time of year again kids. Columbus Pride steps of tommorrow morning from Goodale Park. Gwen Lee and I will be in attenance with friends. I'll be in a black URNA tShirt and a black leather cowboy hat, and Gwen will be in her Gay Pride bik...Read More

THIS SATURDAY! Come get your voodoo on with the crowd at Outland Nightclub.   A great theme party is planned with tons of prizes and lots of eye candy so hopefully you can make it. The cover at the door remains thee same. It's just an excuse to...Read More

Hey everyone-- This Saturday, June 10th we're throwing a next Triangles party in Danbury, CT. Only an hour north of NYC. We're expecting a HUGE turnout, and friends are coming from all over the country to be there! Check out the website link or join my...Read More

Some of you knew Roxy, or have at least heard by now that she suddenly passed away in May.  She meant a lot of things to a lot of people, myself included.  I included some thoughts and memories of her on my latest blog entry at this link = ht...Read More

any one going to SCC i am looking to see if someone is willing to share a room with meRead More

I've kind of avoided posting to this journal, being such an old person and not into things like blogging, but it's gotten to the point that I have to do something. In the past couple of weeks I have gotten so many guestbook comments, all so complimenta...Read More

Ladies, it's coming up sooner than we know it. SCC www.sccatl.org is rapidly approaching. Make plans to be there this year. I guarantee it will be the "Time of Your Life" well, at least that's the theme this year. I've been fortunat...Read More

  Well, everyone has seen the specs on Jon's new computer. What most of you don't know is that I just purchased a new computer as well. I just received a brand spanking new 20" iMac Intel Core Duo. I have to admit, I'm incredibly impressed. T...Read More

well on sat morning i was excited and nervous about going to danbury for the infamous Triangles bar/club.  it would be my third time in  a bar/club in 6 yrs hahah.   also the thought of bikers mingling gave me chills for some reason...Read More

well Satuday was a great and nce day out in NJ 70 plus weather and the sun was shining, well i asked father Jerry, weeks ago if he would take me golfing,so he said sure let go on the 15 of Apr (tax Day).  Sorry Aspen. well if some of you that don'...Read More

Spring Fling UPDATEMore info at www.xpressions.orgApril 1st, 2006 Beauty Galore!!!The Beauty Consultants from Estee Lauder (The Bay, Kingston) are keen, very keen to tend to the gals at the Spring Fling! They will bring a full selection of camoufl...Read More

Thank you to the Admin Staff at URNA for reposting an article in The Washington Blade. The closing of Ziegfeld's and other clubs in the SE warehouse district of DC. It will indeed mark a sad occasion. As a frequent patron of Zig's( as we locals li...Read More

I wonder if it would seem funny if it wasn't so sad.  The following is an excerp from another member's prolife..... ODE TO TOSSERS   I wrote this poem, one dark night, Alone and utterly pissed, Not on the dreaded liqu...Read More

I wrote this letter to my ex-wife's father and sent it recently. He used my transgenderness as the scapegoat in my failed marriage to his daughter. The letter was a long time coming and can be found by cutting and pasting the following link = http://...Read More